13/01/2026
🌿You are NOT responsible for things that are outside your control.🌿
Here's a gentle (yet firm!) reminder to reflect upon what's actually in or out of your control.
It can be so easy for us to fall into the trap of taking on responsibility for things that aren't actually ours to own, especially if we are vulnerable within our mental health.
So I invite you to take a step back and ask yourself where your current worries lie (this is a good exercise to get a trusted friend to give their perspective on), and, if it is identified that the thing that is causing you stress/worry/anxiety is actually outside your control — practice letting it go.
See this as a sign that it’s not yours to carry, even if you can let go of a little aspect of it, it's a step in the direction for self care, self leadership and boundary setting. I absolutely understand that this can be extremely difficult at times, especially if feeling responsible for things is a trauma response.
🌿 Download my free Circle of Control reflective technique at www.attunedmind.com.au
🌿If you’d like support exploring the things that causing you distress in a safe, compassionate space, sessions are available to book online, with Medicare rebates available with a GP mental health treatment plan.
🌿Please feel welcomed to DM me if you have any questions.