16/04/2025
People are waking up to listening to their nervous system and noticing how it is intimately connected to the habituated trains of thought that get triggered by life's stresses.
They notice when their nervous system is overwhelmed and spontaneously decide to expose their brains to less social media, news, opinion filled conversations, 'busyness'. They slow down, spend more time in nature, find themselves drawn to 'small' activities of interest, disengage from people and situations they cannot influence, read more, listen to music, bake.
Others notice when the 'niagara falls' drop in their mood occurs, initiated by the habitualised/patterned thinking that is the cause. Some spontaneously develop thinking 'scripts' to act as a 'circuit breaker'. Others use imagery to push the acrimonious neural tangle out of the way. And others sense the calming benefit of consciously tuning into their sensory surroundings.
How interesting it is that the human brain is capable of noticing what overwhelms and spontaneously provides 'evidence based' solutions, even when the person is unaware of how the mind/body works, why a mind at peace is important to brain health, and how the solutions that come to mind restore equilibrium.
For others, writing spontaneously comes to mind. (Many people have had negative experiences with writing in their school years, which then interferes with accessibility to this healing pathway.) Writing allows the turmoil in our heads to be structured by words and in the process our minds calm. It also provides distance. Put the turmoil manifesting from the emotional centre of our brain on the page, and the thinking part of our brain can have a rational look at it.
Perhaps the biggest value of writing however is in its power to explore, expand and reshape the thinking that has been wired in during emotionally charged experiences. Everyone has childhood experiences that undermined their self esteem and shaped compensatory behaviours. We all carry them into adulthood, usually working for us, until they don't. Life is dynamic. Sooner or later something comes along that gets in underneath the 'armour' we have survived by.
Perhaps the most well known approach to writing about trauma to support healing was created, researched and refined by James W Pennebaker, Professor Emeritus of Psychology. There is always more context to bring to traumatic experiences. That broader knowledge changes the way we think and feel about ourselves, others and life. That knowledge (wisdom) sits latent inside everyone. We just have to tap it.
To find out more about the Pennebaker approach go to - https://liberalarts.utexas.edu/psychology/faculty/pennebak -health And if you would like support in working with it, call me.
Liberal Arts at UT offers over 40 majors and many top-ranked graduate programs in the social sciences and humanities taught by 750 faculty.