25/11/2025
You donât just 'get over' the things that your nervous system never had the chance to process. Chronic childhood stress, anxiety, growing up in survival mode, or experiencing trauma or abandonment doesnât just stay neatly in the past...the body remembers what the mind tries to move on from.
When a child spends years in fight or flight, their body learns that it is normal. Their cortisol stays high, their muscles stay tight, their jaw stays locked, hands stay coiled, their breath stays shallow, and their brain becomes wired to scan for danger, even when life is calm. This shapes how they think, feel, react, sleep, digest, and connect with others. It becomes the foundation their adult body builds itself upon.
This is why some people struggle with fatigue, anxiety, sleep disturbance, gut issues, inflammation, weight gain, hormone imbalance, or emotional overwhelm for decades. Their nervous system was trained to survive rather than rest. The body holds the story, and the patterns created in childhood can echo through adulthood until they are brought into the light.
Healing starts when you recognise that the reactions that once protected you, are no longer serving you now. When you learn to slow the breath, calm the body, release the tension and soften the constant alertness. When you create safety from the inside out with gentle nervous system work, nutrition, herbs, prayer, community, and the steady presence of God, the body can relearn peace.