Raelene Jackson Energy Healer & Fertility Coach

17/01/2026

Our patterns will repeat, until we change our response to the event. The lesson can come from multiple people and situations to show us what needs healing. Awareness is our first step.

Most people don’t realize that life doesn’t repeat because of fate — it repeats because of loops.

This image shows two very different cycles we can fall into, often without noticing.

At the center of both is INTENTION.
Not the intention we say we have — but the intention we act from when things get uncomfortable.

🔁 The Victim Loop

This is the loop of unconscious living.

Something happens. A situation triggers discomfort.

Instead of facing it, we:

Ignore what hurts

Deny our role

Blame circumstances or people

Rationalize our behavior

Resist change

Hide from truth

And then… the same situation shows up again.
Different face. Same lesson.

The Victim Loop feels safe because it protects the ego.
But safety comes at a cost: stagnation.

Nothing grows here. Nothing heals here.
Only stories do.

🔁 The Accountability Loop

This is the loop of conscious growth.

The same situation arises — but this time, we choose differently.

We:

Recognize what’s really happening

Own our response, not the story

Forgive ourselves and others

Self-examine without self-attack

Learn the lesson

Take action, even when it’s uncomfortable

This loop doesn’t feel easy.
But it feels free.

Because every pass through it makes you wiser, lighter, and stronger.

⚖️ The Truth Few Talk About

Both loops begin with the same situation.
The difference is choice.

You don’t escape the Victim Loop by blaming less people.
You escape it by telling yourself the truth.

And you don’t enter the Accountability Loop by being perfect.
You enter it by being honest.

🌱 A Gentle Reminder

Accountability is not punishment.
It’s self-respect.

Forgiveness is not weakness.
It’s clarity.

Growth doesn’t happen when life gets easier —
It happens when you get braver.

Ask yourself today:
Which loop am I feeding — and which one is feeding me?

Because the moment you change your loop,
your entire life trajectory shifts.

14/01/2026

I've recently discovered Kate and I'm loving her posts. Growth is painful! She is right!
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12/01/2026

I've tried the 54321 method before and it didn't really work for me. Now that I'm exercising and have more motivation, I'm going to try again. Have you heard of, or tried 54321?

She was $800K in debt at 41. On the verge of losing everything. Then one decision changed her life.

Mel Robbins just visited my studio and I’m still processing what she said.
She didn’t talk about success first.
She talked about rock bottom.

“I was $800,000 in debt. Drinking myself into the ground. Barely getting out of bed. I thought my life was over.”

Then she told me the part most people don’t know:

The night before everything changed, she was watching TV.
A rocket launch flashed across the screen.
And this thought hit her:

“Tomorrow morning… I launch myself like that rocket.”

No motivation.
No plan.
Just one decision.

So the next morning, when her alarm rang, she tried something new:
54321… and MOVE before fear had time to talk her out of it.

It didn’t make her rich overnight.
It didn’t erase the debt or shame or anxiety.

But it got her out of bed.
And that’s where momentum started.

5 seconds to change direction.
5 seconds to interrupt fear.
5 seconds to start again.

Years later, she created the biggest nonfiction book release in history.
Her podcast became the #1 most followed in the world.
And now her message is changing millions of lives.

The major takeaways?
• It’s not too late.
• You don’t need to feel ready.
• Courage can be 5 seconds long.
• Your next chapter can start today.

I don’t know who needs this today…
but you don’t need everything figured out.
You just need 54321 launch.

12/01/2026

When you can be okay with not being pregnant this month, you greatly reduce the anxiety around it. Let yourself off the hook and be okay with 'it's not my time yet'.

11/01/2026

Exactly. Pay attention. 🧠

Most days are not ruined by events.
They’re ruined by unchecked thoughts.

🌧 A comment
🌧 A delay
🌧 A mistake
🌧 A memory
🌧 A worry about something that hasn’t even happened

That’s usually all it takes.

The mind grabs that moment and starts spinning stories: “I always mess things up.”
“Nothing ever goes right.”
“This day is already ruined.”

And once the story is believed, the body follows.
Your mood drops. Your energy sinks. Your patience disappears.
Suddenly the whole day feels heavy — not because it was bad, but because the mind never came back to the present.

🔹 A bad moment becomes a bad hour.
🔹 A bad hour becomes a bad day.
🔹 Not because life collapsed — but because awareness left the room.

Here’s the truth most people miss: 👉 Thoughts are temporary. 👉 Emotions are waves. 👉 Moments pass — whether you cling to them or not.

But when you don’t notice what’s happening inside you, you hand the steering wheel to your mind’s worst habits.

🧘‍♂️ The skill is not controlling life.
🧘‍♂️ The skill is noticing the moment your thoughts start running wild — and choosing not to follow them.

Pause.
Breathe.
Return to now.

Ask yourself: • “Is this thought helping me?” • “Will this matter tomorrow?” • “Am I reacting, or am I aware?”

🌱 Most days don’t need fixing.
🌱 They need presence.

Train your mind, and your days will stop feeling like battles.

Not every cloud means a storm.
Sometimes it’s just a passing shadow — unless you build a whole night around it.

06/01/2026

Group Reiki dates for 2026 have been set. I'm now offering the first Wednesday and 3rd Thursday of every month. To book in for Jan or Feb, please contact me directly on 0422 16 17 49. The price remains $25 pp with a maximum of 4 per session.

31/12/2025

ACTION...that's my word for 2026. I've written it in my diary. I've put post it notes around my house to keep me on track. I am starting a new year with an intention to DO rather than THINK.

Have you made any resolutions or set intentions for yourself? If you have, share them in the comments, setting an energetic agreement with yourself and the universe. If you haven't and you're seeing this post, now is the time to do it 🤍

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31/12/2025

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14/12/2025

I LOVE BOOKS!! I had a great time browsing the tables at Brisbane Lifeline Bookfest and found some gems. I also picked up some novels to keep me busy over the Christmas break. Happy days 😀

05/12/2025

I never noticed the mistake when I bought this a couple of years ago. Do you see it?
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13/11/2025

Parenting is a roller coaster of emotions. What words complete your sentence?