18/12/2025
THE HIDDEN PROGRAMMING BEHIND YOUR EMOTIONS
How Childhood Patterns Shape Anxiety, Depression & Low Self-Esteem, And How to Break Free.
Your thoughts and beliefs are shaped by childhood, trauma, culture, and past experiences. We all perceive the world differently, and we each react in our own way. Our emotional responses are learned patterns—automatic programs we absorbed long before we ever became aware of them.
But if these patterns are not healthy it can be changed.
When you become aware of your tendencies, you gain the power to choose a different response, and this is how you break the cycle of emotional uneasiness. Without that awareness, people stay trapped, repeating the same reactions no matter how much they want to change.
You can uncover these unconscious patterns, reconnect with your true self and begin seeing life from a fresh perspective. This process helps you rediscover your worth, your strength, and your personal agency. And from there, you can start rebuilding a healthier, more empowered version of yourself.
Anxiety is a mental habit. It’s the automatic creation of the worst-case scenario and then suffering from your own imagination. People may feel that worrying is the same as taking action, but worry only drains energy and often manifests into physical symptoms. I believe no one is genuinely happy yet chronically unwell.
I often ask my clients, “Is what you’re worrying about actually within your control?” Most of the time, the answer is no—which means the worry is unnecessary, draining, and harmful. When I suggest letting go, people naturally ask, “But how?” Their mind chatters endlessly, and they believe they can’t stop it.
This is where I ask: “Is the dog wagging the tail, or is the tail wagging the dog?”
Are you in charge, or are your thoughts controlling you?
If you’re ready to break this cycle and ease your anxiety, visit Bribie Simply Healthy. What you’re experiencing isn’t a character flaw—it’s a skills gap. You simply haven’t learned how to respond to your worry yet, and this is a skill you can absolutely learn through strategic psychotherapy, EFT, or hypnotherapy.
And while you build those internal skills, certain natural supports can gently calm the nervous system—herbs like passionflower, lemon balm, ashwagandha, and chamomile can help your body settle so your mind can learn new habits more easily.
A rigid mind creates emotional pain; a flexible mind creates freedom.
The Traits Behind Depression, Anxiety & Anger
People experiencing depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, or anger often share deeper tendencies: Strong self-judgment, Harsh judgment of the world, Rigid expectations of how things “should be”, A fixed way of thinking
When reality doesn’t match these expectations, emotional pain becomes inevitable. Over time, the mind becomes inflexible — without the person even realising it — creating tension, frustration, and a sense of failure.
Let’s dismantle these rigid patterns, release harsh judgement, align your expectations with reality, and restore mental flexibility so you can respond to life with clarity and peace.
Visit us or call enquire further to discover how you can improve your journey to better health.
Bribie Simply Healthy, Ask for Kim. Ph) 07 3410 0521.