31/03/2026
Further to the last post (sorry for the typos), just some sites for more information.
Often the question - why don't they just leave comes up. Sometimes being aware of what is happening isn't the case. Hopefully, this information helps.
Kinds of abuse that don't leave physical scars like emotional and psychological can be more difficult to understand. They usually come with gaslighting. Harder to prove but the impact is still there and difficult to shake.
Https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/what-are-the-power-and-control-wheels
The cycle of violence this shows the stages, thete are other versions which go into more detail about what makes up each stage.
Https://kidshelpline.com.au/sites/default/files/bdl_image/Header_SUB_T_DVAH.png
If I can assist, please contact me. Take care J
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