02/12/2025
When I first started working with high-achieving mothers, I thought most of what they were struggling with lived in their bloods. Low iron, thyroid changes, blood sugar shifts, postpartum depletion… and while all of that is very real, it’s only half the story. Because the more time I spent with these women, the clearer it became that their physiology wasn’t the problem. Their nervous system was carrying a load their bloods could only hint at.
I recognised it because I’ve been there too. On the outside I was functioning, eating well, training, doing everything “right,” but inside my body felt like it was slowly shutting down. And the more I pushed, the worse it felt. I kept assuming it was a lack of discipline or consistency, when in reality my system had been in survival mode for so long that my biology simply adapted to match it.
That’s the same pattern I saw in the woman from this carousel. She wasn’t struggling because she was doing something wrong.
She was struggling because her body had been enduring for years…. the pregnancy, the blood loss, the mental load, the perfectionism, the pressure to keep going, and there had never been a moment where she was allowed to come down from it. Her metabolism didn’t slow because she let herself go. It slowed because her nervous system never felt safe enough to shift.
High-achieving mothers can understand the science, read the articles, and self-analyse with incredible accuracy, but feeling the shift in their body is something else entirely. And that’s the piece most women never get taught.
This is why I created The High Achieving Mother Reset. Not as the answer to everything, but as the catalyst… the moment your body experiences something different instead of you trying to think your way out of burnout. It’s the doorway back into safety, energy, and internal spaciousness.
We go live Thursday 4th December at 6:30pm AEST, and the recording is yours afterwards. It’s AUD$33 and designed for the mother who knows she can’t keep living like this but doesn’t yet know how to step out of survival mode.
If this speaks to you, comment RESET and I’ll send the link.