26/01/2025
"The thought manifests the word
The word manifests the deed
The deed develops into habit
Habit hardens into character
And character into destiny
So watch your thoughts with care
And let them spring forth from love
Born out of compassion for all beings”
Tara Brach
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Thoughts are powerful, shaping our words and actions, a reaction to our previous experiences. As Tara Brach reminds us, “The thought manifests the word; the word manifests the deed; the deed develops into habit; habit hardens into character; and character into destiny.”
It’s a reminder of how much influence our inner world has on our lives. And yet, while thoughts hold this potential, they are also incredibly fleeting. Like bubbles in a glass of water, they arise, float to the surface, and disappear.
The challenge, of course, is that our minds don’t always treat thoughts like passing bubbles. Instead, they latch on, spinning stories and judgments that pull us into worry for the future or regrets about the past. This tendency is natural; our brains are wired to focus on problems and threats as a survival mechanism. But when we spend too much time trapped in these cycles, our thoughts can begin to harden into habits that don’t serve us.
So how do we loosen the grip of repetitive, unhelpful thought patterns? The answer isn’t to control or suppress our thinking—that only feeds the cycle. Instead, the practice is one of awareness, compassion, and gentle observation.
I invite you to try the following simple exercise:
1. ‘Step-back’ from your thoughts: if you feel comfortable, gently close your eyes, imagine you are a witness to your thoughts, as if they are bubbles in a glass of water, rising, then disappearing
2. Perhaps feel into the body, noticing what you are feeling, without letting the mind create a story about the feelings
3. See if you can relax into the awareness of what is happening, in the present moment, observing without judgement everything that rises and disappears.
The beauty of this practice is its simplicity. Each time you bring your attention back to the present moment, you are creating space—space for compassion, for curiosity, and for choice. Over time, this gentle awareness can help soften old habits of thought and open the door to new possibilities.
The truth is, thoughts will always come and go, just like the beating of your heart or the rhythm of your breath. But when we meet them with care and love, they become less of a force pulling us away and more of a guide leading us toward the life we want to create.
Let your thoughts spring forth from love, as Tara Brach says, “born out of compassion for all beings”, not forgetting to include yourself in that compassion.
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Read more on my blog https://open.substack.com/pub/mindflowgrow/p/thinking-influences-how-we-experience?r=48udmz&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true