Holly Haywood Trauma-Informed Therapy

Holly Haywood Trauma-Informed Therapy IFS | RTT
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Trauma-informed therapy, supporting women, particularly mothers, to heal their inner wounds so that they can parent - and live - with more peace, ease and self-love.

A quick IFS explainer ⤵️ (full detail in the carousel)  1. IFS asserts that the mind is naturally subdivided into multip...
27/11/2024

A quick IFS explainer ⤵️ (full detail in the carousel)
 
1. IFS asserts that the mind is naturally subdivided into multiple sub-personalities, or ‘parts’. These parts hold their own beliefs, interests and natural strengths (even genders) and together, they form our inner system or ‘family’. Our parts can be experienced through our thoughts, feelings, physical sensations, or mental images.
 
2. As we develop, while trauma and attachment injuries don’t ‘create’ our parts, they do shape them, typically forcing them into more extreme roles. In IFS, the three distinct roles parts take on are as ‘exiles’, ‘managers’ and ‘firefighters’.
 
3. Our exiles are the young parts of us that have absorbed and taken on the effects of trauma. They continue to hold the fear, sense of worthlessness and vulnerability of that earlier time, and are therefore typically exiled by the system in order to keep these extreme beliefs and emotions suppressed.
 
4. On the other hand, our managers and firefighters are our protectors, with our managers proactively working to prevent any further hurt and rejection, eg. through controlling, perfecting and people-pleasing, and our firefighters serving as the last wall of defence. If a wound is touched upon, they’ll jump in at any cost to control and extinguish the pain - think the self-harming, bingeing, and rageful ‘parts’. But regardless of the strategy or outcome, they all have one pure intention: to protect us.

5. When there are exiles living with us, the whole system effectively becomes organised around suppressing and keeping the pain of the exiles out of conscious awareness or from being re-experienced. It becomes fragile and vulnerable to triggering.

6. At the same time, IFS recognises that everyone also has a core, untouched Self, and in accessing this Self, it becomes a powerful reparative + healing agent. ✨

Curious about IFS and learning more about the parts that might currently be at play in your system and experiences? I offer free 30-minute mini sessions for anyone thinking about starting IFS therapy. Comment “mini” to get a link to book in x

If you’re curious about root cause therapy, and would love to experience similar results in your own life (with the inve...
05/11/2024

If you’re curious about root cause therapy, and would love to experience similar results in your own life (with the investment of just one 2.5-hour therapy session), comment ‘root cause’ and I’ll send you a link to book in a free 20-min consult ✨ x

Are you struggling with depression, anxiety, or emotion regulation?Are you being challenged in your parenting by constan...
03/06/2024

Are you struggling with depression, anxiety, or emotion regulation?

Are you being challenged in your parenting by constant triggering, overwhelm, reactivity, anger/rage, guilt, shame, or an overwhelming sense of helplessness and hopelessness? Are you trying to accomplish the mammoth task of parenting, while dealing with unresolved trauma of your own?

Have you been sensing that it’s time to work on your own wounds, so that you can show up in the way you want for yourself, for your children, in your relationships, or in your purpose? Have you been getting the sense that your inner child(ren) are in need of healing?

**Experience the healing benefits of RTT & IFS 1:1**

I am offering a BETA program for women who are you interested in delving deeper, and healing some of these wounds so that they can begin their return to greater wholeness - back to who they are really meant to be, and, if you’re a mum - to begin to parent more from your Self, rather than from your wounds.

Beginning as a coach training in NLP, then to my RTT practitioner training, I have been using parts work for several years and am so passionate about this way of working. I believe it is THE most effective ongoing therapy for resolving deep, including preverbal, wounds (on the other side of the coin, RTT is wonderful because of the degree of healing and deep subconscious change that typically occurs in just a single session). And so, as a soon-to-be-certified Internal Family Systems (IFS) Trauma Treatment practitioner - I have decided to create a program so that women can benefit from the combined power of both (currently at beta pricing).

See the post for further details, and send me a DM if you’re interested in learning more or to book in for this 1:1 program (limited spots available for obvious reasons). Alternatively, feel free to book in a 20-min chat if you’d like to chat further.

Holly x

I strongly feel that hypnosis is the most underrated and underused tool in trauma treatment and recovery.By definition, ...
18/05/2024

I strongly feel that hypnosis is the most underrated and underused tool in trauma treatment and recovery.

By definition, traumatic memory is largely unconscious. Its legacy is retained in the body via feeling memories, body memories, muscle memories, autonomic memories (learned nervous system responses!), and procedurally learned survival strategies... By definition, our body’s response to a traumatic event or enduring overwhelming circumstances in childhood is stored subcortically - in the lower areas of the brain outside of our conscious awareness.

It probably comes as no suppose then that working directly *with* the subconscious mind in hypnosis is a powerful way of working with and metabolising traumatic memory... It allows us, through tapping into the wisdom and absolute knowing of our subconscious mind - and through dual awareness - to gently and easily review and reframe the disempowering beliefs that were adopted at the time of the experience, to metabolise and release the feelings that became stuck at the time due to overwhelm and an inability to process them, and to understand and relieve our *parts* of the defence mechanisms (incorporating mental, emotional and pyschosomatic symptoms) that they adopted at the time in order to help support the only aim: survival.

There is no mystery or uncertainty in hypnosis; everything becomes clear and malleable. Then we utilise the neuroplasticity of the mind to begin to create new neural networks that reflect the person you are now, instead of the child you were then. 🤍 Hypnosis offers a whole-body experience (of relief and change) - because it offers a direct connection to both mind AND body.

When we face a threat - whether ‘real’ or perceived, from either outside of us or internal (a thought) - key areas and f...
05/02/2024

When we face a threat - whether ‘real’ or perceived, from either outside of us or internal (a thought) - key areas and functions of the brain are inhibited, compromising the successful encoding of the traumatic experience into a conscious, narrative memory, aka into declarative memory. Effectively, successful memory processing fails.
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🧠One key part of the brain that is inhibited when we react to a perceived threat is the hippocampus - the memory processing centre of the brain, responsible for processing an experience - organising, contextualising and sequencing it - prior to it being ‘remembered’. The second key region that dysfunctions under times of perceived threat is the prefrontal cortex, responsible for higher level thought processes and regulation of emotion and ultimately for witnessing the experience as it happens.
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When these key areas and functions are compromised or shut down ⛔️ the brain isn’t able to successfully store the experience in the form of a memory or narrative that we can simply recall voluntarily. Instead, the experience is encoded in the form of raw data - as implicit memory - essentially stored in the form of feeling memories, bodily sensations, muscle memories, and memorised autonomic responses. The sensory elements of the experience remain unprocessed, unintegrated, and unattached to a narrative.
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As a result, trauma survivors commonly don’t have “memories” of the traumatic experience to which to attribute their symptoms, and on top - and if they do have conscious awareness of what ‘happened’, eg. in the case of prolonged traumatic experiences in adulthood, they probably have a difficult time putting the experience into words. Yet the body continues to speak for them - via unconscious awareness of these implicit memories (and high sensitivity to them at that) and the wide-reaching implications of unresolved trauma via the nervous system and on the body - as seen in the image at the end.

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If you’re like most people, you probably aren’t really sure what hypnosis actually is; and it might all seem a bit odd (...
02/10/2022

If you’re like most people, you probably aren’t really sure what hypnosis actually is; and it might all seem a bit odd (and not for you).

If you’re anything like I was, you probably have some preconceptions (*misperceptions*) about what hypnosis really is ~ probably partly based on stage hypnotists you might have seen as a child.

Hypnosis is something that’s shrouded in a lot of mystery, perceived woo-woo, and misunderstanding. In fact if someone had told me even two years ago that I would become a hypnotherapist, I wouldn’t have believed them ~ and to be honest, I probably would have laughed.

However as I came towards the end of a coaching certification and was faced with the challenge of actually helping clients find the root of problem and therefore truly help them change their habits using coaching (the conscious thinking mind), and began searching for something more powerful, the absolute criticalness of working at the subconscious level became so, so clear – and I began to look at hypnosis in a more serious way, until I finally came across RTT – which truly is, root cause hypnotherapy.

👉🏻 So, what is hypnosis really?

Hypnosis, above all else, can be understood as a feeling of deep, profound relaxation, combined with a heightened sense of awareness. 👁

Induction into hypnosis – which in RTT is carried out rapidly, in a matter of minutes - is designed to quickly bring the client into an alpha brainwave state, which is experienced as a deep sense of relaxation, a state of mind that would be familiar to anyone who has practiced mindfulness meditation.

As the middle brainwave frequency, alpha acts like a bridge between the thinking mind (the higher frequencies of beta and gamma) with the lower frequencies of theta and delta (the subconscious/unconscious minds). In effect, it creates a link between the conscious mind and the subconscious mind ~ and between the external world and the internal world ~ allowing a flow of consciousness, integrating all levels of mind.

In this state, because high beta brainwaves are minimised (high beta is disproportionately focused on the outside world), there is very little ‘monkey mind’ and anxiety. The mind ~ as we tend to know it on a daily basis ~ completely quietens down and becomes still.

We experience a heightened sense of awareness of self, increased clarity, a heightened connection to who we truly are, and the ability to easily and effortlessly identify what we already know at a subconscious level (given it is the vault in which all our deepest beliefs, habits, preconceptions, patterns and earliest memories – including preverbal - are stored).

Theta waves ~ the realm of the subconscious ~ are also present in hypnosis, however it’s the alpha-theta border (7Hz - 8Hz) which is the optimal range for visualisation, mind programming and where your intuition is at it’s clearest and most profound. This is the optimal state for hypnotherapy, and the mental state in which you consciously create your reality.

As biophysicist Max Cade, who measured states of consciousness in the 1970s, said about the optimal state he identified and called the ‘Awakened Mind’, “The awakening of awareness is like gradually awakening from a sleep and becoming more and more vividly aware of everyday reality – only its everyday reality from which we are awakening!”. I feel this mirrors exactly what I get to witness in my clients as a hypnotherapist, and it’s extraordinary.

All that said, there’s nothing unnatural, or magical about hypnosis. 🧠

Some clients will remain totally still throughout the session; however others will continue to move as necessary, to scratch their nose, wipe a tear away from an emotional release. But regardless, the body has become, and will feel, beautifully irrelevant. Because you are in a heightened state of mind, communicating directly with your subconscious mind, and feeling so present, while working with your therapist towards fully understanding and releasing your outdated programming from the past, and defining the new beliefs, and the new habits that you are choosing for yourself to accept ~ and begin to wire in as your new normal ~ in this highly receptive state.

Where RTT differs from regular hypnotherapy, is it’s powerful focus on getting to the root cause of the issue, and removing this root cause (the subconscious program) while in hypnosis so that permanent and lasting relief is available - regardless of what issue the client came to the session with ~ from migraines, to autoimmune conditions, anxiety, lack of confidence, procrastination, money blocks, fears and phobias, or recurring relationship patterns.

And the idea that you are out of control, like the stage hypnotist probably led you to believe? This doesn’t exist. Hypnosis only exists where you allow it. Hypnosis is about choosing to let suggestions in that benefit you, and you decide what you let in; you are completely aware during the session (more than ever), completely in control, you decide what you want to share, and how to share it; and the therapist merely facilitates the process.

If you’re curious or have a question ~ send me a DM ~ or feel free to book in a free Zoom consult through the link in bio or via my website.

Holly x

The subconscious mind runs the show. 🔥 If you have behaviours that consistently contradict your goals, intentions and ev...
26/09/2022

The subconscious mind runs the show. 🔥

If you have behaviours that consistently contradict your goals, intentions and even efforts, you can be guaranteed that you have a subconscious program running below the surface that thinks that sabotaging you is in your best interests ~ usually your mind’s attempt to protect from a perceived threat.

Your present reality in any given domain of your life ~ relationships, money, love, health, accomplishment, whatever it might be ~ is a direct printout of your deepest beliefs. So if a part of your life isn’t as you want it and you consistently experience recurring negative patterns ~ you probably have corresponding subconscious beliefs that are due for an upgrade from their childhood form.

Where do you tend to sabotage yourself?

RTT in a nutshell ~ root cause therapy . 🌱
19/09/2022

RTT in a nutshell ~ root cause therapy . 🌱

Hey, I'm Holly 👋🏻 I'm a certified hypnotherapist and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) practitioner, an incredibly po...
19/09/2022

Hey, I'm Holly 👋🏻 I'm a certified hypnotherapist and Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) practitioner, an incredibly powerful and unique method that draws on hypnotherapy, neurolinguistic programming, cognitive behavioral therapy and psychotherapy to quickly get to the root cause of whatever it is that's holding you back.

Based in beautiful Byron Bay, Australia, I work with clients worldwide over Zoom, and am deeply passionate about helping people live more on purpose.

There'll be more from me later, including why I personally chose RTT and why I believe so strongly in it, as the most powerful tool there is to permanently move past limiting beliefs and situations. But in a nutshell, the power of getting to the root of the issue(s) affecting us - and truly getting to the bottom of why it has manifested and is still occurring in your life today (i.e. getting to the actual subconscious blueprint lying underneath it all) - is truly life changing. I’ve seen the power of RTT so many times over, that I know it absolutely works wonders. 💥

If you’ve never heard of RTT, or have but still have questions about the modality or about hypnosis, send me a message and I’ll be happy to share more info, or book in a 20-minute consult over Zoom and we can have a quick chat about your current situation ~ and what you want instead.

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