13/02/2026
It goes without saying that our lives our full.
There's the typical stuff; work, meetings, exercise, cleaning the house, yard work, meal prep, wellbeing appointments, managing accounts and bills. And on top of that, some of us study, carry family responsibilities, take on renovations, and handle every other ad hoc thing that seems to land on our plate at any moment.
With so much filling your calendar, take a moment to consider how fulfilled you actually feel by it all. How fulfilled did you feel throughout your day today? Yesterday? Last week? Last month? The last 10 years?
Does your work give you a sense of purpose, and fulfilment within that purpose?
Are your relationships with those closest to you rich in intimacy and genuine connection?
Even when you’re working on something like a renovation, are you experiencing joy in the process, or frustration, just wanting it to be over?
Most of us hold the belief that fulfilment will arrive when…
When we get the promotion.
When we earn more money.
When the house is finished.
When the kids are older and life feels easier.
When we finally reach our ideal weight or body image.
Take a moment to reflect on your life so far. For many of us, we realise it’s been one long journey of striving, moving from one goal to the next. It’s exhausting! Of course, there is nothing inherently wrong with living this way. But when fulfilment is placed in the hands of things outside of you, it will always remain dependent on those things.
On the other hand, when you flip the script and lead with fulfilment first, the journey itself becomes the joy. Outcomes may happen, or they may not, but they no longer determine your inner state. Fulfilment stops being the reward at the end and becomes the way you walk the path. Life may still be full. The calendar may still be busy. But your experience changes. Instead of chasing the next moment for happiness, you bring presence and intention into this one.