22/04/2025
Can you build trust when your kindness is seen as a trick? In forensic settings, schema therapy faces a tough challenge: the Paranoid Over-Controller mode, where suspicion is a way of life. My latest blog, What’s Love Got to Do with It? Schema Therapy with the Paranoid Over-Controller, explores why being overly warm can backfire, how to outsmart mistrust with practical strategies, and what it takes to connect in a system that prioritizes risk over healing. With lessons learned the hard way (and some truly awful coffee), it’s a must-read for therapists navigating high-stakes work.
I’ve spent years navigating the high-stakes, high-tension world of forensic institutions—prisons, secure hospitals, and units that feel like they’re one slammed door away from a movie set.