04/02/2023
This week I have set some homework at the end of class. It was to write 150 words on what the word yoga means to you. Whether you do this on paper or in your head is up to you, but it is a good practice to occasionally review your relationship with yoga. I’m not really asking that anyone takes it on to produce an essay and hand it in at class. Unfortunately, this little yoga school doesn't have the resources to make good on that. But it is a useful exercise for each of us and in the end, what matters as we progress and even occasionally regress over time, is that we have our own personal connection with yoga. Hopefully over time, our relationship with yoga and what it means to us will deepen.
There are many opportunities missed, to utilise yoga practices. Understandingly the plan might be to undertake some asana practice, and for those who feel it and know it (that sounds like a song lyric, may be Marley) , the pranayama practice, in a nice setting, on a perfect day and under conducive circumstances, hoping to multiply the already favourable events. But life doesn’t always offer dependable favourable opportunities. More often, for some of us at least, there are obstructive events, less than perfect conditions, an uncooperative mind, too much negative news and too many negative people, and certainly no rainbows in sight. Perhaps these are the more favourable conditions to put yoga to work. We should each reflect on this, and I thank some of you who have kindly reminded me of it too.
There are certainly situations – healthwise, when symptoms may be severe, and life circumstance wise, where conditions may be extremely difficult, overwhelming, or when caught up in the grips of turbulent inner states, that may well require professional help, and during which times, it may be very difficult to bring yoga foremost in our minds. But what about when the states are not so insurmountable? Can we draw something from yoga to help? Are we still thinking of yoga only in terms of me, my needs, my satisfaction, my asana practice etc?
This week I received some feedback, which essentially went: “You are so busy in class with everyone, I suppose that you just don’t get time for each of us………” It is a fair enough comment in the early part of yoga practice because it may seem like that at first, since no one really knows what I am doing, assessing, waiting for, attending to, having to prioritise in class. I’m thankful for the feedback because it does give me a chance to address it and again clear up any confusion. I can’t really get into it now, other than to say that over time everyone gets the attention needed, though perhaps not always when they want it. (I seem to recall someone’s song lyrics along those lines, maybe Jagger, Richard, Et al).
These feelings will come up in all yoga classes and amongst all groups of people. It’s nothing unique but does suggest that there is a greater need to delve deeper into what we are doing in a yoga practice. One Ashtanga Yoga teacher answered this kind of response, by stating that – “when you come to class and have made a payment to attend, you are getting to place your mat on the floor. Beyond that, nothing is guaranteed”. Maxine can correct me, since she was there, and it’s her story.
What I can guarantee is that if people listen to the yoga (the after-class talks are the lessons in yoga) and apply them as best as they can, yoga makes an appreciable difference in one’s life. To what extent, may depend on how well, and how often we apply the teachings, and what we are dealing with, and when necessary, what additional support may be required, and what detrimental factors remain in one’s life and state of mind.
In terms of the world and our view there are things to take note of and be thankful for and the field of positive psychology endorses this. There is the very fact that we have access to yoga practice for one. That we are alive and can experience, that we have a mind, and we find joy, insights, beauty, and growth amidst the ups and downs (when it is often the case that we will point a finger and declare ‘you’re to blame’ – I think that was Bon Jovi) our lives, are marvellous reasons to remain hopeful. Just consider the radical shifts in recent times: 1. Statistics reveal that more and more people are now working from Om, 2. So many young people, fed up with the fickleness of ego-bound progress, are now looking for the real Selfie, 3, Rising living costs and related difficulties support and make clear, the first Noble Truth – that life involves 'un-satisfactoriness', (the understanding of which should prompt us towards more committed practice) and 4. That you can actually fund a petition online, requesting a Season 2 of Shantaram.
Once upon a time, while searching for my true Selfie in the jungle of Hawai’i; well, at the tourist shop in civilisation at Hanalei Bay (local legend has it that is was named after Puff the Magic Dragon’s homeland of Honah Lee), before that fated destination, I purchased a singlet with a message on it by someone called Kimo. It was Kimo’s rules for living. It’s all printed on the back of the tank top, which is nice because one ends up radiating positive messages to the world, but also not so helpful because the wearer possibly needs to reflect on them most of all. Here are some of Kimo’s messages: ‘Never judge a day by the weather’; ‘The best things in life aren’t things’; ‘Goals are deceptive – the unaimed arrow never misses’; ‘He who dies with the most toys, still dies’; ‘There are 2 ways to be rich – make more or desire less’; ‘Beauty is Internal – Looks mean nothing’; ‘No Rain – No Rainbows’. Please look beyond the simple statements above and consider if there's one that may be useful for yourself.
Below is an image of this one, searching for the True Selfie, scaling and embankment in a thicket above the most beautiful secret beach at Hanakapi’ai at the end of a very slippery, very wet and muddy trail, around sometimes scarily steep cliffs, far up the track from the disassembled hippie encampment once funded by Howard, Elizabeth Taylor’s brother, in the 1970’s.
See you at Class. Focus on the job, forget about what you think is or should be happening at class. Forget about everything you have heard about Ashtanga Yoga. Remember what you have been taught about actual Yoga.