02/09/2025
We get it - it may seem a bit confusing to know when to put your little one to sleep if we’re not monitoring for tired signs.
Since ‘tired signs’ dont necessarily mean sleep is imminent, we’re instead trusting that our little one will fall asleep when their little body is ready. What does that actually mean? Let’s talk through it...
Picture 1) Newborn phase: It’s particularly biologically normal for our little newborns to want to be close to us - this really is how they meet their sensory-motor needs at this age. Sleep will likely come via this closeness - like in the carrier!
Picture 2) Baby phase: We’d had an adventurous morning out - he took his first nap in the car along the way. We returned home and I suspected his sleep pressure was peaking but never actively put him to sleep. Instead, as he became upset, I met him with a cuddle and he fell asleep on my hip, within about a minute!
Pictures 3 + 4) Toddler phase: We were well and truly onto one nap by this period.
The house had gone quiet on both occasions (toddler alarm bells) so I went searching for him. His sleep pressure had well and truly peaked and fell asleep mid play, as his body needed it.
Video 5) A good ol’ car nap transfer. If they transfer, their sleep pressure is super high. If they wake on transfer then that’s a-ok - they likely just don’t need that extra sleep!
The main components of all of these images? Well, sleep came easily and when they were ready. We’re also still meeting our little ones with nurture, comfort and cuddles. Naps surrounded in noise and sunlight to also support their circadian rhythm.
When we meet our little one’s with food or a day full of wonderful adventures, sleep really just comes easily along the way. You might wonder if your little one will ever fall asleep in different places.
Well, as you experiment your way through, you might find your little one drift off to sleep in the car, the pram or even in unusual places like in these photos - as you trust your little one will fall asleep when their sleep pressure is TRULY high enough.