09/01/2026
There was a time when I understood this intellectually, but didn’t really live it.
Psychology teaches us that our minds are brilliant time-travellers, replaying the past through memory and rehearsing the future through prediction. Helpful at times… exhausting when unchecked. Anxiety lives in the future imagined. Rumination lives in the past revisited. Yet neither is where life is actually happening.
What I’ve come to recognise (and practice, imperfectly) is this truth: the present moment is the only place where experience, emotion, and choice exist. Not because it always feels good — often it doesn’t — but because it’s the only place where awareness, regulation, and change are possible.
When I return to now, I benefit in simple but profound ways:
• my nervous system settles
• my thinking becomes clearer
• I respond instead of react
• I feel more grounded, connected, and resourced
Being present doesn’t erase the past or ignore the future. It simply puts them in their rightful place with memories remembered and possibilities imagined while I stand here, breathing, living, choosing.
It is always now.
And coming back here has quietly changed everything.
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