22/01/2026
During an event, if I'm talking to you, or have indicated I'm talking to a particular row or group of people you're in, don't ignore me if your dad's name is, (I'm paraphrasing) Robert, and I've said, "I have the names Robert, William, Dorothy, Margaret, and Jack"
When you respond positively, spirit provides further information. When I've already said Robert is on your father's side of your family and the other names are known by dad or connected to dad, your blank stare pauses the flow of information.
When I insist, "I know the names are for you," and you reply, "but every family has those common names," you're just being stubborn. Yes, those names are common, but I'm talking to you, not the room.
With a positive attitude, and because I've done hundreds of events and have experienced this. When accuracy is acknowledged, spirit shares more information.
Like thisâa made-up interaction for those in the back.
"Oh. My dad's name is Robert."
Cool. There's multiple Robert's on your dad's side of the family... and a young living Robert.
"Yes!"
Margaret is in spirit and known by your dad. He turned his head and introduced her to me.
"I don't know Margaret, but it's a big family."
A family of 13, and Betty's here, too. She's Jack's brother.
"Now I remember. Betty's my nan and John (Jack) is her brother. I think he was married to Margaret."
John called Jack. Right? Now we can talk about the coin collection and the dog called Frank. And you need to buy new underwear. Your nan's telling me your knickers are baggy and uncomfortable. She's also showing me a cameo brooch that's been broken and glued together.
"That's her brooch! I have it and looked at it before I came tonight."
Yep.
See how that flowed? I may not get the people or information you want, but I will get something you know, or something you can research. Be relaxed and positive at events.