20/10/2025
Frequently, an attendee at an event will ask, usually during the q & a part of the event, "what are the messages from spirit?"
My self-control not to eye roll and sigh is next level.
At the start of every event, I explain, if I'm sharing names from spirit, those people in spirit are here, and if all I share is their name, they're saying hello. If I share the names of living people, people in spirit, the names of spirit I've shared are acknowledging and saying hello to those people.
I also often say, I speak as spirit, not for. So everything I say is coming from spirit.
So rather than say, your nan knows you've bought cheeky knickers recently. I'll say, "you've bought, or who's (knowing that two people were shopping) bought cheeky knickers? You, or the other person also took a selfie while modelling the knickers. You, or one of you has a mole on her left bum cheek." The way I'm saying this will show whether Nan's being cheeky, is shocked, or she loves shopping. I'll share the feelings I'm feeling, nan's feelings, to show how nan's personality and love. It's always love. Mostly.
Prior to nan talking about cheeky knickers, I'd have said, (I'm paraphrasing) "I've two Johns. John senior is Jack, in spirit, and there's an uncle John. Jack is also the middle name of a young boy. I've also got the names, Audrey, Rose, Margaret, and Cathy. Cathy is living, but there's also a Kathlein. I'm not sure if Kathlein is living or not, and it's also a middle name of an older woman."
Person I'm talking to responds, "Jack is my pop, Audrey is my nan, Margaret is nan's sister, and Cathy is my mum. Mum's alive, though."
I say, "your mum can be alive." To the audience, "remember at the start of the event I said, when I share names, think about everybody. The people in spirit, and your living family and friends."
I continue, "who's the young lad who has the middle name Jack?"
Person says, my sister's son, Josh."
I reply, "oh. JJ. There's another man who also has the initials JJ, and your sister has Kathlein as her middle name?" (I speak in a questioning tone)
Person, "yes!"
I say, "cool! Jack and Audrey took me there to say connect to your sister. Jack's a cheeky bastard. He's got dodgy teeth, though. He loves all his grandchildren, but Jack junior's hard work, though. His dad's a lazy fu**er!" I'm swearing because Jack swears. I'm swearing because people swear when they talk about Jack junior's dad.
Person laughs and also almost cries. I feel all of it and almost cry, too, and say "your nan adores you. You fart like a donkey, though."
Person laughs and sheds happy tears, "ha ha. She used to say that all the time to tease me."
I say, "Where's the Donkey, and where's Pat? Pat's down the road. Six doors down."
Person thinks about it.
I say, "Pat and Bruce."
Person answers, "oh my God! Pat and Bruce were nan's neighbours and they had a donkey."
So, what's the message?
To be fair, during events, I only talk briefly to some people and only share names to make a quick connection. I do this to speak to as many people as possible. Yes, some people get more, but if you want more, book a private session. Easy, right?
The message? Appreciate what you got, be happy for others who got more, and listen to what the medium is saying when he describes how he works. Eye roll coming... 🙄😉😁
Here's a thing. Sometimes I'm describing and sharing information about a living grandparent or person. They way I'm doing it can seem like they're in spirit. The person I'm talking to will say, "but they're living." Oh. I read living people and spirit the same way. I intuit information from and about them the same way. I'm not embarrassed to have said, Jack is communicating this to me, when Jack is still alive. Now, I have to find the person in spirit who knows Jack so well that I can talk about and be/feel him this way. That's when I ask for more information and names from spirit. The obvious spirit will be Jack's wife or parents.
It's a wonderful mystery and adventure. depending on numerous factors, I'll identify the spirit... or not.
Talk soon.
