24/06/2021
"How much self love do you have?" This question was posed to me by a dear, wise back in 2013. It hit me out of the blue, and threw me into a whirlwind of confusion. It felt like she was speaking a different language. For a rare moment in my life, I was speechless. I did not have a clue what self love was. I knew it was something important that I didn't possess. ๐ค
Some time later, into psychological of my own, I discovered that deep under the noise of my mind, and my external achievements e.g. good grades in postgraduate study, making life work successfully in another country, a happy relationship...I felt I was a bad person. I held deep shame over so much that I had done and didn't trust myself not to betray myself, primarily with , stemming from . I know I'm in this, this is an epidemic. ๐
has been a journey. From the abstract I have discovered my own personal that inform the, (often ), I set, and the daily and that bring me joy. These are some of the actions that constitute self love. What small practice do you so each day or each week to nourish yourself? It doesn't have to be big or dramatic..5 mins of meditation, a walk, listening to music, calling a friend..feel free to comment below. โ๏ธ
To know, and feel, that my worth is not dependent on achievements or self-abandoning for others' approval has been part of the journey. The primary Yogic Yama: , (love/ ) is my guide when I stumble, (often). It's a process, a journey,and it's okay to be imperfect. ๐ง
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