11/05/2026
Breastfeeding is a learned skill, for every mother and every baby. But when you have two, the pressure to do it all at once can feel really overwhelming before you’ve even started.
In my clinical experience, so many mothers of multiples find it really helpful to learn to breastfeed one baby at a time first. Not because tandem feeding isn’t possible, it absolutely is, but because learning one feed at a time gives you the chance to tune into what an effective latch actually feels like, to get to know each baby individually, to build your confidence, and to troubleshoot (with hopefully a spare hand once baby is on!)
Once you’ve given yourself permission to just learn, experimenting with tandem feeding often comes so much more easily and you can tell when it’s working or when you need to troubleshoot. Because you and your babies have actually had the chance to figure each other out first.
There is never one right way. Every breastfeeding journey looks different and what works for some can work different for others.
If you’re a mother of multiples, please feel free to comment or share any kind words for the mums who are about to begin this journey or are currently in the thick of it.
🤍 Arnikka