
15/03/2022
๐๐I want YOU to have it ALL๐๐
A friend asked me about the relationships we find ourselves in and how to flip the dynamic to be treated better. She was shy, didn't like confrontation and she didn't have the confidence to ask for more from her partner. She was feeling angry & sad because she gave everything, yet wasn't being treated well in her relationship and she knew her situation wasn't what she dreamed it would be. But she still silenced her own needs & quietened her voice. She kept showing up for a man who didn't seem to care enough to find out. She kept over compensating to make up for what he lacked๐
I've been that girl before and I'm sure many of us have found ourselves in a similar situations. I wanted to help her hack her life. I wanted her to get what she wanted. But no matter how much I counseled her, it starts within. And she needed to be willing to stand up for herself. She needed to show up for herself, set her boundaries & speak her truth. ๐
Do you often put others needs before your own?
Do you know how to set healthy boundaries in order to get what you deserve?
So how do we stop putting ourselves last? It counds cliche but the answer is right in under our noses. Simply by putting ourselves first, we can hack this version of reality. Every moment we are all one choice away from having a completely different life. Ask yourself if your current situation serves you. Is this really what you want? Will this help you grow and succeed? If the answer is no, then you must make space for new things. The universe is simply responding to the frequency we put out.
By accepting situations and relationships that aren't feeding your soul, you are sending out a vibrational frequency of acceptance. You are telling the universe that this, regardless how minimal, is enough or you and that you agree to having this experience. Have you made past agreements out of fear, comfort or lack? Have you allowed one-sided relationships hoping they will get better? Have you stayed in jobs that don't serve your purpose? Do you find yourself in showing up for situations that aren't what you signed up for?
You can learn how to say "No, that's not enough for me, I deserve better" by setting clear boundaries.
You don't owe anyone your time.
You deserve to have more.
You are allowed walk away.
By setting clear boundaries with ourselves and with others, we are basically learning to write a list for cosmic creation. What you write on the list will come to manifestation when you are ready to receive it! But the first step is recognising that whatever is making you unhappy is simply not enough.
You are allowed to want more for yourself.
You are allowed to reach for the stars.
And you can have it all.
Boundaries are so important for growth & manifestation. This begins with consciously choosing to create our reality.
What are your goals & dreams? The universe treats you how you allow by giving you experiences that you can say YES or NO to. Whether it's a job that doesn't recognise you, a relationship that doesn't stimulate you, a friendship that is off balance.. The minute you decide that what you are experiencing is not enough, say it out loud.
"This is not enough. I deserve better!"
Your focus could be off if you're not getting what you want.
Another friend who wanted to know how I managed to be treated so well. She said "Every time I see you, your being spolied by someone!" The answer is simple I said "I Deserve it & I Command it, and so it is."
I'll tell you a secret๐คซ
The universe is rigged in our favour. It conspires to give us what we desire if our intentions are clear.
So first we must make clear boundaries in order to manifest properly.
Your needs are important. And you deserve to have them met. The first step is recognising that you need more that what you're currently receiving. The next step is asking for it.
Teach your world & the people in it to treat you with love, respect, appreciation by speaking your truth.
Do you know what you want? Good.
Now are you ready to go and get it?
๐๐All my Love and Abundant Blessings๐๐
The Crystal Creatrix
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