25/07/2025
Your nervous system always communicates through sensations, emotions, and energy levels. But most of us have been conditioned to ignore or override these signals in favour of external expectations.
We push through fatigue because society values productivity over rest. We stay in draining situations because selflessness is prized more than self-preservation. We dismiss our body’s stress responses, believing discomfort is just something to power through rather than understand.
But your nervous system isn’t trying to make you weak or difficult; it’s trying to protect you and guide you toward what nourishes you and away from what depletes you.
The body remembers every time you didn’t speak up when you needed to, every boundary that was crossed without consequence, every moment you prioritized someone else’s comfort over your own safety. These memories don’t just linger in your thoughts, but in your muscles, breath, sleep cycles, and digestion.
In response to chronic stress, your nervous system becomes hypervigilant: constantly scanning for danger, bracing for the next impact, unable to fully relax. This isn’t paranoia. It’s your body adapting to environments where your needs weren’t safe to express or where your truth wasn’t welcomed.
But here’s the nuance. Not every signal from your nervous system is about the present. Some reactions are echoes of past pain. Trauma responses rooted in situations long gone but emotionally unresolved. Learning the difference between a legitimate red flag and an old alarm is part of healing.
Trauma says, “You’re not safe anywhere.” Intuition says, “This specific thing doesn’t feel right.” Trauma creates urgency and confusion. Intuition speaks calmly, even when it’s warning you.
The healing journey involves becoming a compassionate witness to your inner world rather than a harsh judge. You begin to ask: Is this fear coming from the present or the past? Is my body alerting me to a real imbalance or reacting to an old story?
With self-awareness and gentleness, you learn to honour exhaustion instead of overriding it, to pay attention to that tight chest or sinking gut as possible wisdom, not inconvenience.