
11/09/2025
You cannot pour from an empty cup.
Today is R U OK? Day in Australia - a national reminder to start real conversations by asking “Are you OK?” and listening with care. I love that message, and I also believe it starts with us.
Before you check in with someone else, do a quick self-check:
• Where am I on the green–yellow–red spectrum today?
• Do I need a break now, before I tip into red?
• What actually refills my cup?
That’s the point of the image: choose to take a break at the green bottle – before you need one. Prevention beats repair.
Quick refill ideas (pick one you’ll actually do): step outside for fresh air, a big glass of water, slow exhale breathing, a 10-minute lie-down, gentle stretch, quiet tea without your phone, three lines in a journal, notifications off for 20 minutes, or messaging a friend to book a proper chat.
Then, from that steadier place, check in with someone you care about: “Are you OK?”