Relationship Resolutions

30/08/2025

This is so true and a wonderful reminder this beautiful Sunday re love ❤️ is your relationship unbalanced, call Mel let her help you get back on track. Ph 0426 218869 have a wonderful day.

When you really matter to someone, you’ll never have to chase their attention, beg for their time, or wonder if their words are real. They’ll show it to you without hesitation. They’ll create space for you in their life, no matter how busy they are. Because when people truly care, they don’t look for excuses, they look for ways.

No excuses. No lies. No broken promises. Just consistent effort, honesty, and presence.

The truth is, love, friendship, and loyalty are not measured by grand gestures or perfect words, but by the simple daily actions that prove, “I’m here, and you matter to me.” Someone who values you will not let you question your worth in their life.

Remember, you should never have to beg for respect, attention, or loyalty. The right people will always make time, because you are a priority, not an option. 💙

27/08/2025

23/08/2025

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The WORST feeling for a woman is when she tries to have a conversation with a man about his BEHAVIOR that hurts her every day, but instead of listening, he gets ANGRY and turns the situation around on her.
It’s a feeling that cuts deep—a mix of frustration, sadness, and emotional abandonment. She gathers the courage to speak up, not to argue, not to attack, but because she loves him and wants to make things better. She speaks from a place of pain and hope, hoping that maybe this time, he will really hear her, that he will understand the weight she’s been silently carrying.

But instead of leaning in, he raises his defenses. Instead of acknowledging her feelings, he deflects. He gets loud, or cold, or sarcastic. He shifts the blame onto her, twisting her concerns into accusations against her character, her tone, her timing. Suddenly, the conversation becomes about how she brought it up instead of what she brought up. And just like that, her pain gets buried under his anger.

And it’s not just the argument that hurts—it’s the message underneath it all: Your feelings don’t matter. Your pain is inconvenient. Your voice is too much. That moment becomes a silent wound, another scar added to the emotional pile she’s been trying so hard to suppress for the sake of peace. But peace without understanding isn’t peace—it’s silence. It’s pretending. It’s walking on eggshells while slowly losing pieces of herself just to keep things from falling apart.

What’s worse is that after enough of these moments, she starts to question herself. “Maybe I am too sensitive.” “Maybe I should just let it go.” “Maybe it’s not a big deal.” But deep down, she knows it is. She knows what respect, empathy, and love should feel like—and this isn’t it.

When a woman reaches out to address something that hurts her, it’s a gift. It’s her saying, I still care enough to fix this. It’s a chance for connection, healing, and growth. But when that moment is met with anger or blame, it pushes her further away. Not just emotionally—but spiritually. Because nothing is more damaging to a woman’s spirit than constantly being made to feel wrong for wanting to be treated right.

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19/08/2025

18/08/2025

Abusers are so wily and manipulative. There are infinite ways that they can tear down their partner. It is often so difficult to put your finger on exactly what is happening. For me, I kept trying to fix ME to make him happy. That was a losing battle. The more I did, the worse I was treated.
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12/08/2025

Be this man, read below thankyou Cody. If you would like to learn how to be this man, how to let go of ego or arrogance. Let go of always needing to be right. Call Mel 0426 218869, she has helped save hundreds of relationships by helping each person become the best version of themselves. All appts are tailored to the individual. Call or text her today

Wait to Marry this Man.

Growing up I was always told....

Be the man who brings her flowers to work.

Be the man who always opens the door for her.

Be the man who buys her gifts to show how much I care.

But what you're never told, is to wait for the man who does things for you in silence.

The things that almost go unnoticed because they weren’t flashy, expensive, or done in front of others for the public eye to see.

What I should have been told was this....

Be the man who gives her affection without sexual expectation.

Be the man to apologize when you're wrong.

Be the man who invests his time in her.

Be the man who stays true to his character.

Be the man who listens to her.

Be the man who protects her.

Be the man who doesn't mind hurting other women's feelings to protect hers.

Be the man who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love her.

Be the man who goes to church with her on Sunday morning.

Be the man who continuously shows effort.

Be the man who wakes up every morning and says goodmorning to her while gently kissing her forehead.

Be the man who refuses to entertain any woman that isn't her.

Be the man who stays true to his intentions.

Be the man who respects her wishes.

Be the man to ask her how her day was, and genuinely care about the answer.

Be the man who makes her a priority rather than an option.

Be the man who knows it's not about giving her the world but making her feel like she's the only one in it.

Take my advice ..... and wait for the man that will never let you go to sleep at night wondering if you still matter.

~ Cody Bret

10/08/2025