17/12/2025
Were you a SELF-GASLIGHTER after your autism or ADHD diagnosis?
“I’m probably just lazy”
“I just over-identified with all the memes”
“I knew what they wanted me to say from all the TikToks about ADHD and autism assessments”
You’re not alone - these are common thoughts experienced after a diagnosis. Please remember, a skilled assessor can distinguish between meme-expertise and lifelong traits! And it’s likely that autistics and ADHDers grew up in neurodivergent families where these traits are the norm. It can be confronting or perplexing to have them identified as atypical and may add to the sense of, “Am I just making this up?”