04/12/2025
The Mental Load of Working Parents 👨👩👧👦🧠
Being a working parent isn’t just about balancing a job and family — it’s also managing the mental load that comes with it.
The mental load is the invisible, constant thinking, planning, organising, and remembering that keeps a household running. And it’s exhausting.
Here’s what it often looks like:
🧾 Keeping track of school notes, appointments, and activities
🍎 Planning meals, groceries, lunchboxes, and snacks
🧺 Remembering laundry, cleaning, and household tasks
📅 Managing schedules, birthdays, playdates, and family commitments
💼 Switching between work mode and parent mode (sometimes within minutes)
❤️ Supporting kids emotionally while also managing your own wellbeing
Over time, this invisible workload can lead to stress, burnout, and feeling stretched too thin.
✨ If this is you:
You’re not failing — you’re carrying more than what others can see.
Asking for help, delegating tasks, and creating shared responsibilities isn’t a weakness — it’s essential.
Let’s normalise talking about the mental load so parents don’t feel like they have to carry it alone.