01/02/2026
A babies “temperament" or "nature" shapes their behaviour right from birth. It impacts on feeding, sleep and every aspect of baby care.
Temperament is what makes babies
"different" and impossible to compare. What might work to soothe one baby may have the opposite effect on another. 🤷♀️
These differences render black and white baby advice useless!
I help new parents to learn about what type of "little human" has been gifted to them.
I instil confidence and calm, not panic or doubt at a time when so much can feel so “scary”!
What new parents need is education & support to feel reassured while time goes to work 🙏
Time to experiment with what works for “their” baby and “their” unique nature. Some babies have needs that are more challenging and harder to meet. This doesn’t necessarily mean something is wrong. 🤷♀️
The quest to find a solution is often more exhausting & stressful than the understanding & acceptance of a babies temperament.
It's easy to become lost in the fog!
The best thing that you can do for your baby and yourself is to find ways to make life easier and aligned with "Temperament" rather than with societies or even your own expectations. 🤷♀️
Soothing another requires some soothing of yourself to keep that nurturing cup full. ❤️
Get practical help in, consider safe bed sharing if it enables you to get sleep, consider a carrier for the baby who needs to be held.
Choose any support or advice sources wisely 🙏
I see so much fear mongering out there!
People looking for, or suggesting “potential problems” just to appear to be helping or knowledgeable. 😡
I don’t see many babies who need “fixing”
I see SO many who are needing to be understood ❤️
Parents struggling with knowing what’s truly normal & expected, bombarded by fear based parenting advice 😔
I am often the voice of many babies in their most primal , instinctive form translating what they most desperately want to tell you 🙏❤️