Intimacy & Relationships with Nic

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Nicola Bodle is a qualified and trauma-informed somatic sexologist and intimacy coach, passionate about supporting others to gain confidence in themselves and their sexuality.

A conversation for men on intimacy and communication at .bookshop You’ll learn skills in:* Stepping out of performance m...
16/04/2026

A conversation for men on intimacy and communication at .bookshop

You’ll learn skills in:
* Stepping out of performance mode
* Connecting with and being present in your body
* Understanding and communicating your needs and desires
* Listening to your partner and truly giving

This is an intentionally intimate space, so places are limited.

We’ve all heard of the Five Love Languages, but here’s why I think they’re BS and highly problematic - and what the real...
15/04/2026

We’ve all heard of the Five Love Languages, but here’s why I think they’re BS and highly problematic - and what the real foundations of a healthy relationship look like.

Which one resonates with you most? Send it to someone to start a conversation.

Join secs educator, Nicola Bodle, for an evening of playful conversation as we explore:- How to get out of your head dur...
07/04/2026

Join secs educator, Nicola Bodle, for an evening of playful conversation as we explore:
- How to get out of your head during intimacy
- Techniques to increase ple*sure and sensation
- How to figure out what you like and how to ask for it
- Becoming embodied when you feel like a zombie
 
Ple*sure Map is your guide to having the secs you actually want.
 
This is a series of ‘Power & Pl€asure to the Women’ workshops happening on the last Sunday of each month at The Laneway Gallery
 
All women, AFAB and v>lva-bodied humans welcome!

Join s-x educator, Nicola Bodle, for an evening of playful conversation as we explore:- How to get out of your head duri...
07/04/2026

Join s-x educator, Nicola Bodle, for an evening of playful conversation as we explore:
- How to get out of your head during intimacy
- Techniques to increase pleasure and sensation
- How to figure out what you like and how to ask for it
- Becoming embodied when you feel like a zombie

Pleasure Map is your guide to having the s-x you actually want.

This is a series of monthly 'Power & Pleasure to the Women' workshops at The Laneway Gallery

All women, AFAB and vulva-bodied humans are welcome!

https://www.comequiver.com/workshops-events

The sold out Power & Pl£asure to the Women workshop was such a hit that we decided to make it a monthly thing!Each month...
04/04/2026

The sold out Power & Pl£asure to the Women workshop was such a hit that we decided to make it a monthly thing!

Each month we’ll dive into a different aspect of female s*xuality and empowerment, with this month exploring fantasies and role play!

It’s happening Sunday 12 April at

As always, there’ll be plenty of time for group conversation, activities and Q&A about secs and relationships.

Keen to join the cult, I mean club? Register asap to save your spot as places are limited!

03/04/2026

Turns out things are quiet on a public holiday around here..

Feeling disconnected from your partner or body?Not enjoying the intimacy you’re having? Or not craving intimacy at all?F...
30/03/2026

Feeling disconnected from your partner or body?

Not enjoying the intimacy you’re having? Or not craving intimacy at all?

Feeling like housemates instead of lovers?

Individual and couple sessions are available at with certified and trauma-informed practitioner Nicola Bodle.

An integrative approach to sx and relationship therapy and a safe, welcoming space for all humans.

DM or comment CURIOUS for more info.

29/03/2026

Up to 1 in 5 women experience pain during secs, and one of the most common drivers is a pelvic floor that can’t relax.
We’ve been taught to strengthen our pelvic floor… but research shows that tight, overactive muscles are one of the biggest causes of painful secs, reduced pleasure and disconnection.
Hypertonic pelvic floor can be caused by things like endometriosis, childbirth, chronic pain or trauma.
The Pelvic Serpent Wand is designed for trigger point release of overactive pelvic floor muscles.
Use code COMEQUIVER for 10% off your order from

22/03/2026

Here are 5 tips for touching a 😽.

Now, this is going to sound counterintuitive, but resist touching anywhere on the 😽 for as long as possible. (This goes for self-ple🍦sure and partnered play!)

Build up heat and tension by increasing blood flow and bringing awareness back to the body and sensations. Desire and wanting come from anticipation, so start by kissing, rubbing, licking and caressing all over the body. Tease sensitive areas like the neck, belly, inner thigh and breasts.

The most important piece of advice I can give you is listen to the body you’re touching - whether it’s yours or someone else’s. What feels good today might be too much tomorrow. Tune into what is feeling good right now and follow that feeling!

19/03/2026

The Four Horsemen is a term coined by John and Julie Gottman to describe the four behaviours that most commonly predict divorce or relationship breakdown. They are:

🤔 Criticism: blame, judgement, disapproval, perceived character flaws
😤 Defensiveness: making excuses, shifting blame, deflecting responsibility
😶 Stonewalling: shutting down, withdrawing, going silent, cold shoulder
😒 Contempt: mocking, insulting, hostility and disgust

To counteract these destructive behaviours, couples must use Four Antidotes to replace the Four Horsemen.

❤️‍🩹 Gentle Startup: instead of focusing on a negative behaviour, begin with how you’re feeling and what you need. Use language that describes your experience.
✋🏼 Take Responsibility: own up to your behaviour, apologise, don’t take it personally
🧘🏻‍♂️ Self-Soothing: Learn to recognise when you’re becoming dysregulated and take a break to calm down before continuing the conversation
🫦 Share Fondness & Admiration: Give compliments, show affection, build mutual respect and appreciation

Do you recognise any of these in your current or past relationships?

Save this post or share to start a conversation. Comment GUILTY if you need a hand working through this and I’ll send you a link for a free 15 minute introductory call!

19/03/2026

The quality and longevity of a relationship isn’t necessarily related to how often a couple enters conflict - but instead to how they approach and move through difficult conversations.

The Four Horsemen of Marriage Apocalypse is a metaphor by John and Julie Gottman to describe the four behaviours that most commonly predict divorce or relationship breakdown.

🤔 Criticism: blame, judgement, disapproval, perceived character flaws
😤 Defensiveness: making excuses, shifting blame, deflecting responsibility
😶 Stonewalling: shutting down, withdrawing, going silent, cold shoulder
😒 Contempt: mocking, insulting, hostility and disgust

To counteract these destructive behaviours, couples must use Four Antidotes to replace the Four Horsemen.

❤️‍🩹 Gentle Startup: instead of focusing on a negative behaviour, begin with how you’re feeling and what you need. Use language that describes your experience.
✋🏼 Take Responsibility: own up to your behaviour, apologise, don’t take it personally
🧘🏻‍♂️ Self-Soothing: Learn to recognise when you’re becoming dysregulated and take a break to calm down before continuing the conversation
🫦 Share Fondness & Admiration: Give compliments, show affection, build mutual respect and appreciation

Save this post and use these tools to change the way you handle conflict and you’ll notice a powerful shift in how close and connected you feel with your partner!
�Feeling overwhelmed? We cover all of this and more in relationship sessions. Book your session with me to go deeper.

18/03/2026

The quality and longevity of a relationship isn’t necessarily related to how often a couple enters conflict - but instead to how they approach and move through difficult conversations.

The Four Horsemen of Marriage Apocalypse is a metaphor by John and Julie Gottman to describe the four behaviours that most commonly predict divorce or relationship breakdown.

🤔 Criticism: blame, judgement, disapproval, perceived character flaws
😤 Defensiveness: making excuses, shifting blame, deflecting responsibility
😶 Stonewalling: shutting down, withdrawing, going silent, cold shoulder
😒 Contempt: mocking, insulting, hostility and disgust

To counteract these destructive behaviours, couples must use Four Antidotes to replace the Four Horsemen.

❤️‍🩹 Gentle Startup: instead of focusing on a negative behaviour, begin with how you’re feeling and what you need. Use language that describes your experience.
✋🏼 Take Responsibility: own up to your behaviour, apologise, don’t take it personally
🧘🏻‍♂️ Self-Soothing: Learn to recognise when you’re becoming dysregulated and take a break to calm down before continuing the conversation
🫦 Share Fondness & Admiration: Give compliments, show affection, build mutual respect and appreciation

Save this post and use these tools to change the way you handle conflict and you’ll notice a powerful shift in how close and connected you feel with your partner!

😩 Feeling overwhelmed? We cover all of this and more in relationship sessions. Book your session with me to go deeper.

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