14/07/2025
“You’re not who you use to be” …no s**t, I’m not meant to be.
We’re meant to learn, grow, pivot, evolve. It’s actually a beautiful part of life.
For some though, it’s ‘easier’ to remain very much the same. No real lessons learned, no real growth, not really pivoting. Usually those people get comfortable blaming, taking no ownership and staying away from self reflection.
So, when you do start to make changes the ‘non pivoters’ become agitated or threatened even. You may start to disrupt their norm. You may start to have boundaries, say ‘no’ more, prioritise yourself over them. This is all a normal part of growth and to be expected.
Change is great, I absolutely understand the hesitation around it though. Flipping your mindset on it though, will open you up to so much potential.
If you’re limiting your own growth because of someone else, you really need to let that go. No two people walk the same path, the limits, expectations and standards others are putting on you are their own lack and that’s for them to work out. You work through yours.
I’m not who I was 6 months ago and I’m absolutely not who I was 5 or 10 years ago. I do that on purpose. When you lean into growth you want more and more of it, knowing it’ll always work out.
When you’re ready for change or sick of feeling stuck - hit me up, I’ll help guide you to your new path 🤍
