27/05/2026
When Stress Starts Running the Show
By Julie Lucas-Hokin at Forward Motion Freedom (2026)
We all know stress exists, I don’t think most of us realise just how many stressors we pile onto ourselves in a single day before our nervous system quietly waves a little white flag and says:
“Help, I’m done.”
In all the pillars I offer in my practice including body work and inner work sessions, I spend a lot of time helping people understand that stress isn’t just “in your head.” It’s chemical, physical, emotional, environmental, spiritual and sometimes self-inflicted in ways that are honestly almost impressive.
Take me for example.
Imagine I’ve had one of those emotionally overloaded days. You know the kind:
• too many conversations
• too many decisions
• too many notifications
• clients that block me with the but I cants and a plethora of other reasons not to change.
• one mildly passive-aggressive text message that somehow altered my entire personality for six hours
So naturally, instead of supporting my already stressed nervous system, I decide the best course of action is to come home and inhale:
• one packet of cheese and onion crisps
• a family-size block of chocolate
• minus one square, because apparently that’s “balance”
The nervous system is crying.
The liver is confused.
The fascia has left the group chat.
But wait, there’s more.
My body is exhausted and clearly asking for rest, so naturally I think:
“You know what sounds restorative? A 5km uphill walk.”
Because nothing says “listening to your body” quite like aggressively overriding every signal it’s sending you.
Or maybe I’m emotionally fried and carb overloaded from the emotionally driven decision to comfort eat and decide:
“I just need to relax and watch something calming.”
And by calming, I obviously mean a true crime documentary where everyone gets murdered by their neighbour and now my nervous system thinks folding laundry is a high-risk activity. Suddenly I’m checking locks at 11pm like I’m head of national security.
I’m sure we’re all guilty of it, or your own weird concoction of stress reduction rationalisations.
Stress isn’t always just one big dramatic event. It’s the accumulation of hundreds of little stressors that the body often doesn’t fully process in the moment.
Emotional stress.
Chemical stress.
Physical stress.
Mental overload.
Poor sleep.
Inflammation.
Suppressed emotions.
Overtraining.
Under-resting.
Scrolling while “relaxing.”
Watching things that make your nervous system feel like it’s preparing for battle.
The body keeps score of all of it. When we don’t have enough time, safety, support, or capacity to process those stressors, they can begin to build up within the nervous system and fascial system and our energy field.
That’s often when people start noticing:
• tension
• pain
• fatigue
• brain fog
• emotional reactivity
• poor sleep
• digestive issues
• anxiety
• feeling “stuck”
• feeling disconnected from themselves
Sometimes the body isn’t fighting you, it’s communicating with you.
One of the biggest things I see in clinic is people believing they just need to “push through.”
But our bodies are incredibly intelligent, tight muscles, exhaustion, overwhelm, emotional shutdown, hypervigilance, these are often adaptive responses from a nervous system trying to protect us the best way it knows how.
The problem is modern life rarely gives us enough space to actually complete the stress cycle.
We override.
Suppress.
Numb.
Distract.
Push harder.
Keep functioning.
Then wonder why our body eventually starts sending louder messages.
This is where healing can begin and wellness intention actioned.
Spinal flow, fascial work, energetic work, inner work, self-awareness and self-care can help create space for the body to unwind stored tension patterns, regulate the nervous system, and reconnect with a sense of safety and flow.
Sometimes people need deep nervous system support.
Sometimes physical release.
Sometimes emotional and energetic support.
Sometimes all of the above.
Sometimes you just need someone to say:
“Maybe the family block of chocolate and serial killer marathon wasn’t the regulation strategy you hoped for.”
No judgement here, I’ve clearly been there myself
A gentle reminder
You do not need to earn rest.
You do not need to wait until burnout to care for yourself.
Healing doesn’t always require forcing or pushing harder, sometimes the body simply needs support, safety, movement, release, and space to process what it has been carrying.
Call to action
If your nervous system feels overloaded, your body feels stuck, or life has just become a little too “much lately,” come and see me at Forward Motion Freedom.
Whether you need Spinal Flow, fascial release, massage, inner work, energy recalibration, or a bit of every modality because life has been juggling a little too hard lately, we’ll work together to help your body reconnect, regulate, and move forward with more ease.
If nothing else, I promise not to judge your emotional support snacks.
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Disclaimer
This article is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical or mental health concerns. Individual experiences and results may vary.