
21/07/2025
Communication Strategies for Autistic Children: Effective methods for parents and teachers.
- Give them processing time, and this may vary between 5 minutes, a few hours or even a couple days. Autistic people often need extended time to decide how they feel or what they think about something specifically.
- Don't expect eye contact, especially if they are heightened. For autistic children, eye contact does not automatically mean they are listening and vice versa. Help them feel safe and comfortable by not saying "look at me when I am talking to you"
- Think about where and when you are talking to them. Was is noisy or visually busy? Where they really eager to go do something but you incidentally got in the way of that? Are they hyperfocused on something they love and are in their own world?
- Reflect on how your own body is feeling. Are you regulated and can you co-regulate right now if needing to regulate a child? Or do you need to take a moment for yourself before you dive into supporting someone else?
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