08/04/2022
Happy Friday all! We're here for another Baby Babble with Anna, where today we will be talking about self-care for new mums.
- Between sleepless nights, changes in hormones, and disruptions to the family dynamic, it is no wonder many people struggle. Up to 80% of mums will experience some form of ‘baby blues’ following childbirth. This usually includes mood swings, tearfulness, irritability, and feeling overwhelmed. For some people these symptoms settle down after a couple of weeks without needing treatment.
1. Ask for help when you need it. New babies are a lot of work. Letting your partner, family, friends or paid support help with responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning or shopping can allow you to focus on yourself and your baby. This may mean learning to acknowledge your limitations and accepting help from others if this does not come naturally.
• Family
• Friends
• Other new parents (friends, colleagues, mum groups)
• Community or religious groups
• Interest or sporting groups
• Health professionals (GP, Pediatrician, Midwife, Psychologist)
• Maternal and child health clinic
• Phone and online support services (PANDA, Gidget, BeyondBlue)
• Hired help (cleaning, childcare)
2. Communicate your needs assertively. There are three main communication styles. For aggressive communicators, their needs come before the needs of others. They tend to forget or ignore the needs, wants or opinions of other people. For passive communicators, the needs of others are put before their own. For assertive communicators, everyone’s needs are considered. Assertive communicators will clearly express their needs, wants and opinions - while also ensuring that the needs, wants and opinions of others are heard and respected. Assertive communicators are able to ask for help, express their point of view and openly disagree with people - all in a respectful manner!