15/12/2025
Honoured to have my latest article published by Hello, Love (part of the Good Men Project) on Medium 🙌🏼✨🥰 (This one is personal 💔)
“Not long after my marriage ended I met a man that I felt I had known before. The kind of connection that feels like it must mean something more. I called him the love of my life. And three years later, that same beautiful (yet toxic) relationship ended, leaving me single and heartbroken, for the second time.
That was the relationship that changed the course of my life.
That was the relationship that stopped me from pursuing men who were not capable of a truly loving, intimate partnership.
That was the relationship where I stopped blaming my relationship failures on the emotionally immature counterpart and started to take responsibility.
If I wanted a successful relationship then I was the one that had to change…”
How establishing safety within means you no longer have to accept scraps.