Dave the Counsellor

Dave the Counsellor David is a registered mental health practitioner. He has more than 20 years of counselling experience. No Referral Require.

Investing in yourself and putting yourself first is a big step in creating a better life. David Nielsen is a skilled and insightful counsellor with over 20 years' professional experience. He is a member of the Australian Counselling Association, and has worked extensively in the private, public and not-for-profit sectors. David specialises in providing effective therapeutic support to adolescents, individual adults, couples and families. David is down-to-earth, nonjudgmental and respectful: he creates a safe and trusting environment for his clients to discuss, explore, and resolve their concerns. Even in the most trying of circumstances, David gives his clients the support they need to turn their most challenging circumstances into opportunities for positive change. David equips his clients with practical strategies and workable solutions to all manner of concerns and difficulties. David is especially skilled at helping clients to manage conflict and improve their relationships. David has a client-centred and outcome-focused approach to counselling. He tailors each session according to his clients’ unique personal needs and situations. David integrates several contemporary modalities of counselling into his practice, including Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Systemic Family Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy. He is strongly committed to helping his clients achieve their personal and professional life goals. David is a Level 4 Member of the Australian Counselling Association and is on the Australian National Register of Counsellors. A Clinical Member of the ACA,

Has graduated from an ACA Accredited Course of study at minimum Degree Level. Has a minimum of 6 years post qualification counselling experience, including minimum 1,000 client contact hours. Has completed a minimum of 100 hours Professional Supervision and completes 10 hours Professional Supervision per annum. Completes 25 Points of ACA approved Ongoing Professional Development per annum. David has completed Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and he uses Gottman Method Couples Therapy in his therapy work.. David has completed training in family education and therapy with a special interest in relationship counselling, addiction and sexuality. David has been a trainer and lecturer in a large national counselling organisation, and has three counselling qualifications. David has been a popular international speaker on issues related to family, marriage and sexuality. He has also managed a not-for-profit counselling centre and has supervised a wide variety of people, including counsellors and administrators. He has also had experience in a large NFP where most of the workers were volunteers, and where people skills were even more critical. BA Family Therapy
Adv Dip Counselling and Family Therapy
M.A.C.A (Level 4)
MBTI Accredited
Prepare/Enrich Accredited Presenter

16/07/2025

Depression is not a chemical imbalance. The idea that depression stems from a simple chemical imbalance, particularly involving serotonin, has been widely circulated for decades. But comprehensive reviews now challenge that narrative.
🔍 What the science says:
• A major umbrella review led by researchers at University College London found no convincing evidence that depression is caused by low serotonin levels or reduced serotonin activity.
• The “chemical imbalance” theory gained traction in the late 1980s with the rise of SSRIs like Prozac, but it was more of a marketing simplification than a scientific certainty.
• Studies that artificially lowered serotonin in healthy individuals didn’t consistently induce depression, further weakening the serotonin-depression link.
đź§  A more nuanced view:
• Depression appears to be a complex interplay of genetic vulnerability, brain circuitry, environmental stressors, and personal history—not just neurotransmitter levels.
• Researchers are now exploring how neuroplasticity, trauma, and social context shape depressive experiences. For example, adverse life events show a strong correlation with depression onset.
đź’ˇ Why this matters:
• Many people have been led to believe their depression is purely biochemical, which can feel disempowering. But if depression is more about how we respond to life, it opens doors to healing through therapy, mindfulness, and meaning-making.

The shift doesn’t invalidate medication—it just reframes it as one tool among many.

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31/05/2025

Yet, true healing is not about erasing pain or becoming someone new; it’s about returning to yourself. At the core of this journey is self-acceptance, a vital yet often overlooked foundation for deep and lasting healing as well as mental wellness (Tibubos, 2019).

06/06/2024

Two children gunned down by their father. A woman seriously assaulted after officers ignored her request for a protection order. Another with fractured ribs told police won't investigate. When police fail to follow operating procedures, the consequences can be deadly.

17/04/2024

AuDHD, a term describing the co-occurrence of Autism and Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), has gained more attention in recent years. This article aims to provide a clear overview of AuDHD, describing both defining features and the evolution of understanding within the community.



Understanding AuDHD
AuDHD is not officially recognised in the diagnostic manuals as a separate condition but is a convenient shorthand used to describe individuals who are autistic and meet diagnostic criteria for ADHD. Both autism and ADHD impacts the way a person thinks, feels, and perceives the world. Autism is characterised by differences in communication and thinking styles and social interaction. It is often accompanied by focused interests and consistent patterns of behaviour that provide structure and enjoyment. On the other hand, ADHD is characterised by a wide-ranging spectrum of attention-regulation challenges, where individuals may have trouble sustaining focus when they are not intrinsically interested in the task, may act without thinking (impulsivity), and often exhibit a high level of physical activity or restlessness (hyperactivity). As a result, the person experiences challenges in planning, prioritising, and initiating daily tasks, organising their time, activities, and belongings, and in regulating social interactions. AuDHD individuals differ in the type and severity of these challenges depending on the levels of stress and support they experience.



Evolution of Diagnostic Perspectives
Until 2013, International diagnostic texts, e.g. the Diagnostic Statistical Manual for Mental Disorders Fourth Edition (DSM-4, APA, 1994), did not recognise the possibility of co-diagnosis for Autism and ADHD, treating them as distinct and mutually exclusive. However, the DSM-5, released in 2013, acknowledged the co-occurrence and allowed for both diagnoses to be conferred to the person. This change reflects a better understanding of the overlapping and distinct aspects of these conditions, emphasising the need for comprehensive assessment strategies to accurately identify and support Autistic, ADHD and AuDHD individuals.



Characteristics of AuDHD
Attention: Autism and ADHD characteristics intersect in complex ways. While both can involve attention-related challenges, their presentations differ. Autism-related attention issues often focus on intense interests, whereas ADHD involves more general difficulties with sustained attention and impulsivity.

AuDHD individuals navigate the confluence of these traits, which can create internal conflicts and unique challenges. For example, the autistic aspect might crave routine and predictability, finding comfort in established patterns and familiar activities. This individual might meticulously organise their workspace, adhere to a fixed daily schedule, or become intensely absorbed in their special interests. However, the ADHD side may introduce a contrasting impetus for spontaneous decisions, seeking novel experiences or responding to sudden urges without considering the longer-term consequences. This could result in abrupt changes in activities, starting new hobbies on a whim, or an inconsistent approach to tasks, which disrupts their need for routine and predictability.

Time Management Conflicts: Individuals may struggle with punctuality due to ADHD’s influence, which can lead to difficulties in time management and a tendency to be late. However, the autistic side usually experiences significant stress and discomfort due to not being on time, reflecting a deep-seated need for routine and predictability.

Planning and Ex*****on Discrepancies: The impulsivity and forgetfulness associated with ADHD can cause challenges in remembering and following through on planned steps. Meanwhile, the autistic aspect may drive a person toward meticulous planning and a strong desire to execute these plans flawlessly, leading to frustration when plans are not carried out perfectly.

Dietary Preferences and Novelty Seeking: The ADHD trait may present as a desire to explore new and different foods, seeking variety and novelty. In contrast, autism may influence strong preferences for specific tastes and textures, leading to a restrictive dietary pattern. This dichotomy can make mealtime choices particularly challenging.

Craving for Novelty Versus the Need for Sameness: ADHD often brings a need for new experiences and stimulation, while the autistic part of an individual may crave stability, routine, and sameness. Balancing these opposing needs can be a constant struggle, as individuals may feel torn between exploring new activities and the comfort of familiar environments.



Navigating AuDHD
Successfully navigating AuDHD requires a holistic understanding of both neurotypes. It is essential for individuals, families, and professionals to recognise the diverse array of strengths and challenges present in AuDHD. Strategies such as structured flexibility, which combines routine with allowances for spontaneity, can be beneficial. Support may also include multimodal therapy approaches, educational accommodations, and social support networks, all tailored to the individual’s unique profile. Recognising and celebrating the strengths of AuDHD, such as exceptional focus in areas of interest, creative problem-solving, and dynamic thinking, can empower individuals to thrive.



Where to from here?
If you are interested in learning more about the combination of ADHD, executive functioning and autism, our online course Autism, ADHD and Executive Function covers the latest research on autism and ADHD, the strengths and challenges of being autistic and having ADHD, and strategies to cope at school, work, and home.

https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/product/webcast-event-autism-adhd-and-executive-function-10-may-2024/

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