27/04/2026
As the black sheep of the family, I grew up feeling very unsupported.
Very early on, I learnt that no one had time for my problems, so it’s best to figure it out myself.
So I did.
Then I replicated a similar dynamic in my friendships — they were only for having fun, not support.
But after burning out countless times trying to carry everything myself, I finally realised that we’re not meant to struggle through life alone.
Since then, I’ve set the intention to invest more in my friendships.
To show up, even when it’s inconvenient.
To actively support their endeavours.
To communicate better, and repair after rupture.
To be vulnerable and ask for help and support.
Now, my relationships are the greatest blessings in my life.
My Clinic Room Warming was perfection — because I was surrounded by the friends who’ve supported me the most over the last couple of years.
They help me be the best version of myself so that I can give my clients the support that they deserve to thrive.
May we attract more of these kinds of relationships in our lives.
