06/10/2025
Grief related to pregnancy loss can be reactivated by seemingly everyday experiences, even long after the loss. These grief triggers may arise during milestone events, seasonal changes, or interactions with others’ pregnancies or children.
These responses are natural reflections of the ongoing process of loss integration.
When this happens, try:
• Seeking connection - whether through a trusted support person or professional.
• Allowing space for the emotional response, rather than suppressing it.
• Revisiting or developing rituals to honor the loss.
Here are some interesting considerations from the literature:
• Social support is one of the most consistent protective factors against complicated grief, depression, and anxiety following pregnancy loss (Cacciatore, 2013; Lang et al., 2011).
• Emotion-focused coping, which includes acknowledging and expressing feelings, is associated with more adaptive grief outcomes (Stroebe & Schut, 2010). The Dual Process Model of Grief (Stroebe & Schut) suggests that moving between confronting and avoiding grief is normal, but complete avoidance can delay emotional integration.
• Rituals can serve as protective factors in perinatal grief, helping to reduce distress and promote post-traumatic growth (Bokhari, 2022).
If you notice these triggers are becoming overwhelming or interfering with daily functioning, it may be helpful to connect with a perinatal psychologist.
Please remember - grief after pregnancy loss is not linear, and you are not alone in navigating its complexities 🤍