16/05/2025
This is so true!! What are you doing to choose you today??
Lesson #155: Put you first!
Let’s get one thing absolutely clear: you are under no obligation to make others happy or solve their problems. While it’s natural to care about people, if you find that your own life is left in ruins while you devote all your energy to others, something’s off. Caring for others is only sustainable when you also care for yourself.
Spending all your time nurturing others while you wither away is a sure sign you don’t give a flying crap about you, and that, my friend, cuts your ability to truly help anyone short.
Imagine if you invested even half the energy you give to others into your own life. Picture the obstacles you’d overcome, the happiness and health you’d achieve, and the incredible boost that would add to your capacity to support those around you. It’s not selfish or narcissistic; it’s honouring the incredible spark of the universe that you are.
The reality is simple: take care of you first. Put yourself at the top of your priority list. When you genuinely care for yourself, you grow stronger, and your ability to care for others multiplies. It’s a win-win, and trust me, it’s really cool to watch yourself transform when you finally choose you.
Take care of you first, and the rest will follow.
