26/03/2025
Being happy. Even in the best life there are times when interactions between you and another head into the realm of conflict. But there is light, there is a way to manage this situation positively and peacefully.
Conflict to many means arguing, arguing means yelling.
Yelling frightens most people, including adults!!
So many times when two people are in conflict, both say they feel powerless and both think the other is powerful.
But if two people in conflict both feel powerless then no one is feeling they have the power to change the nature of the interaction to something better.
And this is how couples and other pairings find themselves in never ending cycles of argument, nit picking, or retreat from engaging in the relationship for fear or avoidance of another argument.
Learning how to address conflicting views, conflicting plans, conflicting dreams is one of the most important life skills, yet when at school was this a subject of any depth?
Conflict has existed since people have had free will. There are simple ways to negotiate your way out of conflict and protect yourself from future conflict without having to hide or stay quiet.
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