28/04/2026
When the Nervous System Is Dysregulated, Menopause Symptoms Can Feel So Much Worse
In today’s world, women are carrying more than ever before.
Many of us are juggling multiple roles every single day — mother, partner, employee, business owner, caregiver, house manager… the list goes on. Add to that financial pressures, emotional stress, busy schedules, and the constant feeling of needing to be “on”, and it’s no wonder our nervous systems are under strain.
As humans, we were never designed to juggle this many balls at once.
When the nervous system is stuck in fight-or-flight mode, it becomes dysregulated. And when this happens, many symptoms — especially during perimenopause and menopause — can become much more intense.
Some signs your nervous system may be dysregulated include:
• Feeling like you can’t sit still
• Always needing to be doing something
• Struggling to switch your mind off at night
• Difficulty sleeping
• Brain fog or forgetfulness
• Feeling constantly “wired but tired”
Over time, living in this state can contribute to:
• Elevated cortisol levels
• Faster ageing
• Weight gain (especially around the midsection)
• Digestive issues
• Adrenal exhaustion
• Chronic fatigue
• Increased inflammation
As we move closer to perimenopause and menopause, these underlying imbalances often become more noticeable.
Trust me — I’m speaking from experience.
I’m currently at that beautiful stage of life where I’m transitioning into what I like to call the “age of wisdom” (otherwise known as menopause 🤪). And I feel incredibly grateful that for the past 25 years I’ve worked on my health from a root cause perspective.
Has it been perfect? Absolutely not.
There have been times of stress, emotional challenges, poor diet, and life’s curveballs. But what I’ve noticed is that whenever my nervous system becomes dysregulated, my perimenopause symptoms become more pronounced.
For example, if I have something high in sugar, I can literally feel the beginning of a hot flush.
From a conventional perspective, many of these symptoms are simply labelled as “normal”, and medication is often prescribed to help manage them. But from my personal experience, I truly believe that the cleaner our lifestyle and the more regulated our nervous system is, the less intense these symptoms can be.
I’ve experienced this first-hand.
One way I help support women during this stage of life is by working with the body from a nervous system and hormonal balance perspective.
Using a Traditional Chinese Medicine–inspired approach, combined with Bowen therapy techniques, the goal is to help calm and reset the nervous system. Many clients report feeling days of calm, clarity, and a more relaxed nervous system response after sessions.
While daily habits like movement, breathing, good nutrition, and boundaries are essential, sometimes the body simply needs a little nudge to remember what regulation feels like again.
Menopause should be a time of wisdom, empowerment, and stepping into a new phase of life — not a time where we feel overwhelmed by symptoms.
If your body is asking for support during this transition, perhaps it’s time to give it the helping hand it deserves.
Let me help you navigate this stage of life with more ease