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Your Psychologist I'm Franco Greco, a Clinical and Counselling Psychologist. I am an Internationally Accredited Schema Therapist and trained in Gottman Couples Therapy.

I help professionals who are are feeling stuck in their life, career or relationship As Your Psychologist, I practice schema therapy and coaching. Itโ€™s an approach that sits at the heart of my practice. It is designed to help you change negative life patterns. So you can tackle what's holding you back in life, career, and relationships. To learn more about my practice, visit www.yourpsychologist.net.au/

Healing Emotional Disconnection in a Professional Couple Using Schema Therapy and the Gottman MethodThis case study outl...
06/08/2025

Healing Emotional Disconnection in a Professional Couple Using Schema Therapy and the Gottman Method

This case study outlines how Schema Therapy combined with the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy was used to support a professional coupleโ€”both lawyersโ€”struggling with emotional disconnection, criticism, and intimacy issues. The therapy was delivered by Franco Greco, Clinical Psychologist at his Your Psychologist Elsternwick, a Melbourne-based psychology clinic known for helping couples navigate complex emotional and relational challenges.

https://www.yourpsychologist.net.au/case-study-healing-emotional-disconnection-in-a-professional-couple-using-schema-therapy-and-the-gottman-method

๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ข๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—–๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—จ๐˜€"When you pick a partner, you pick a story"This highlights how relation...
19/06/2025

๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ข๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—–๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—จ๐˜€

"When you pick a partner, you pick a story"

This highlights how relationships are built on shared narratives and expectations, often formed during the initial stages of attraction and courtship.

"And then you find yourself in a play you never auditioned for":

This part emphasizes the often unexpected and sometimes challenging roles that emerge as relationships evolve. These roles might not be what either partner initially envisioned, leading to potential conflicts and adjustments.
Esther Perel uses this quote to illustrate the complexities of long-term relationships and the need for ongoing communication, understanding, and willingness to adapt to the evolving dynamics of partnership.

Franco Greco Your Psychologist Elsternwick

๐—ช๐—ต๐˜† ๐——๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐˜€๐—ธ๐˜†โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ: ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—›๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฃ๐˜€๐˜†๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐˜†Fyodor Dostoevskyโ€™s novels delve into the comp...
19/05/2025

๐—ช๐—ต๐˜† ๐——๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐˜€๐—ธ๐˜†โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ: ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—›๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฃ๐˜€๐˜†๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐˜†

Fyodor Dostoevskyโ€™s novels delve into the complexities of human nature, exploring themes like guilt, redemption, and existential crises. His characters' psychological struggles offer valuable insights for psychology, bridging literature and mental health by illustrating how internal conflicts shape behavior and identity.

For those seeking personal growth, Dostoevskyโ€™s works provide profound reflections on the human condition. Engaging with his narratives can help individuals confront their own inner conflicts, fostering self-awareness and emotional resilience. By reflecting on the psychological depth in his characters, one can gain a deeper understanding of their own emotions and behaviors, paving the way for personal transformation.



Our Growth Depends on Our Ability to Internalize and Take Personal Responsibility.
15/04/2025

Our Growth Depends on Our Ability to Internalize and Take Personal Responsibility.

10/04/2025

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐— ๐˜† ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—”๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—œ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—”๐—ป๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†

When experiencing anxiety, the sympathetic nervous system, part of the autonomic nervous system, is activated, initiating the "fight-or-flight" response, which prepares the body for action.

You manage an overactive sympathetic nervous system through activating the parasympathetic system though

1) Relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, yoga, and progressive muscle relaxation can help activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which is the body's "rest and digest" system. This counters the fight-or-flight response, helping you calm down and return to a more balanced state.
2) Mindfulness practices and exercise can also help regulate the body's stress response over time.

Franco Greco
Your Psychologist Elsternwick

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—•๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—–๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—จ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€Carl Jung famously stated that "the greatest burden a c...
08/04/2025

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—•๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—–๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—จ๐—ป๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€

Carl Jung famously stated that "the greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of the parents," implying that parents' unresolved issues and unfulfilled dreams can unconsciously impact their children, potentially stifling their own growth and development.

Franco Greco
Your Psychologist Elsternwick


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