05/05/2024
MY STORY
Married at 18, I realised early on in the marriage, that the man I was married too was not someone I wanted to live the rest of my life with. Eventually, after a decade of abuse, I left. With three children, I embarked on single parenthood, starting a new life in a different town. To support my family and with no real qualifications, my only option was to do something I really enjoyed, cleaning.
My next serious relationship turned out to be just as toxic, if not worse. I was physically and mentally abused, with my children witnessing his outburst on many occasions. That relationship ended 3 years after it started, and it literally brought me to my knees.
In June of 1995, my healing journey began when we relocated to Agnes Water, being near the water brought solace into my life. Contemplating why I repeated history, I started to delve into a journey of self-discovery.
I read a book called Love is the Answer, and it spoke about conditional love and unconditional love, and it was then that I realised that I never really knew what unconditional love meant and in both of my marriages it was very much conditional love.
Upon reading that chapter I found myself crying for hours. It was like a dam had burst open and deep within me a light switched on. I felt like the world had been lifted off my shoulders and a new me had been born. During that moment of enlightenment, I wrote my ex a thank you letter, thanking him for the time we had together and all that we had been through.
That letter literally set me free. I felt so empowered writing to him, and I still say to this very day that the best thing I ever did was marry him because he changed my life forever.
As I continued to find myself, I discovered that there is a depth in all of us, that is so profound that you do not want to turn back, because you get to see glimpses of how your life is meant to be. And even though at times, the mountain may seem impossible to climb it is all worth it.
Over the past 25 years, I have navigated many dark nights of the soul, emerging stronger and wiser. Within my healing business, I am privileged to share my journey, filled with gratitude as I guide and teach others how to move through their own adversities, emphasizing the power of unconditional love and a positive mindset. Today, I deeply value the person I have become, and I am committed to supporting others as they embark on their journeys towards self-discovery and empowerment.
So, with that said, I am super excited to be stepping into the next chapter of my life as an educator and mentor, to healers who are looking to deepen their spiritual connection and to individuals interested in unlocking their innate healing abilities.
If you are seeking empowerment and self-awareness in your life, join me in crafting the next chapter of your story. Comment "EMPOWERED" below, and let's embark on this journey together.