Calming Waves Mental Health and Family Support

Calming Waves Mental Health and Family Support Calming Waves provides mental health treatment, counselling and parenting support services for children, youth and families.

We have a focus on using gentle strategies that enhance the emotional connection and relationships within each family Located in Frankston, Calming Waves Mental Health and Family Support provide a range of trauma informed, neuroaffirming counselling and support services. If you are concerned about your child or young person's mental health, or are struggling to cope with the challenges of parenting and other life stressors, we can help. Our approach uses gentle strategies that enhance the emotional connection and relationships within each family and social networks. ​

Calming Waves offers:
☆ Mental health assessment and treatment for children, youth and families
☆ Counselling for a range of life challenges
☆ Evidence-based therapies such as Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), Interpersonal psychotherapy (IPT), Collaborative Proactive Solutions (CPS), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), psychoeducation and more.
☆ Gentle parenting support, including pregnancy and postnatal support
☆ Supervision and mentoring for social workers and helping professionals
☆ Consultations for services

We offer online and in person appointments with Medicare rebates available with mental health care plans (gap fee applies).

🔒 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀: 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗔𝗿𝗲, 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿, 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗛𝗮𝗿𝗱Let’s talk about something essential to emotional ...
01/08/2025

🔒 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀: 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗔𝗿𝗲, 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿, 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗛𝗮𝗿𝗱

Let’s talk about something essential to emotional wellbeing — but often misunderstood:

➡️ 𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗗𝗔𝗥𝗜𝗘𝗦.

Boundaries are not walls. They are guidelines we set to protect our time, energy, values, and emotional safety.
They help us say:
✔️ What’s okay
❌ What’s not okay
❤️ How we want to be treated

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📚 𝗧𝘆𝗽𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀:

🔹 Emotional: Protecting your feelings, not taking on others’ emotional burdens
🔹 Physical: Personal space, touch, rest
🔹 Time: Saying no to overcommitting or burnout
🔹 Mental: Holding your own thoughts and beliefs, even if they differ
🔹 Digital: Limits around phone use, texting, social media access
🔹 Relational: Deciding how much you give, share, or engage with certain people

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❓ 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗦𝗼 𝗛𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝗧𝗼 𝗨𝗽𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱?

Because many of us were never taught how. Or worse — we were punished, guilted, or ignored when we tried.

Especially if you’ve experienced trauma, you might:

Say “yes” to avoid conflict or rejection

Feel responsible for others’ feelings

Confuse boundaries with being selfish

Struggle to trust your own needs

Feel anxious or guilty when you try to say “no”

🌪️ Trauma can blur your sense of what’s safe or fair, making it hard to feel like you even deserve boundaries.

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💥 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮 & 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀: 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗦𝗮𝗳𝗲𝘁𝘆 𝗛𝗮𝘀 𝗕𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗩𝗶𝗼𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱

If you grew up in a home where:

Your privacy was ignored

You had to “keep the peace” to stay safe

You were expected to meet everyone else’s needs

Saying “no” meant punishment or shame

… then boundary-setting might feel threatening or impossible now.

But here’s the truth:
🧠 Boundaries are a form of healing.
🫶 They rebuild your self-worth.
🌱 They teach others how to care for you.

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💡 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗧𝗼 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁:

1️⃣ Name your needs. “I need time alone after work.”
2️⃣ Use kind but clear language. “I’m not available to talk about that right now.”
3️⃣ Expect discomfort — not danger. It’s okay if it feels awkward at first.
4️⃣ Get support. A trauma-informed therapist can help you build confidence in setting and keeping boundaries.

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🌀 You are allowed to take up space.
🌀 You are allowed to protect your peace.
🌀 You are allowed to change patterns that no longer serve you.

💬 Let this be your reminder:
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘀𝗲𝘁 𝗯𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 — 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀 𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲.
𝗘𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀 𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲.
Because that’s often how healing begins.

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🌊 At Calming Waves, we help individuals explore their boundaries, build self-trust, and learn new ways of showing up in relationships — with self-respect and compassion.

📲 Visit www.calmingwaves.com.au to find out how therapy can support your boundary journey.

🔁 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮 𝗥𝘂𝗻𝘀 𝗜𝗻 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆... 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗮𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗬𝗼𝘂 🌱Intergenerational trauma is trauma that doesn’t end ...
30/07/2025

🔁 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮 𝗥𝘂𝗻𝘀 𝗜𝗻 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆... 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗮𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗬𝗼𝘂 🌱

Intergenerational trauma is trauma that doesn’t end with one person.
It’s passed down — emotionally, biologically, socially — from one generation to the next.
Until someone says: “𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗽𝘀 𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲.”

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🧬 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮?

It happens when the effects of unhealed trauma are passed from parents to children, often unconsciously — through:

▪️Genetics (Epigenetics): Trauma changes the way stress is processed in the body and brain.

▪️Parenting patterns: If a parent doesn’t know how to regulate emotions or form secure attachments, those patterns can be repeated.

▪️Worldview: Trauma shapes how people see others, safety, trust, and the future.

▪️Access to support: Past trauma often limits a family’s emotional or practical access to help.

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📚 It Can Look Like:

▪️High conflict or emotional disconnection in families

▪️Fear of closeness or abandonment

▪️Anxiety, depression, emotional shutdown

▪️Low self-worth and perfectionism

▪️People-pleasing or difficulty setting boundaries

▪️Over-parenting or under-parenting

▪️Substance use or other coping behaviours

▪️Repeating unhealthy relationships

Sometimes, the trauma isn’t a specific event — it’s the long absence of safety, affection, or emotional availability over time.

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🧠 𝗔𝘁𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻𝘀: 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮 𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗲𝘀 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻

Children form attachment styles based on how their caregivers respond to their needs.
If a caregiver is unpredictable, emotionally unavailable, or frightening, the child may develop:

▪️Anxious attachment: Clingy, fearful of being left

▪️Avoidant attachment: Distant, overly independent

▪️Disorganised attachment: Confused, fearing both closeness and distance

These patterns can repeat in adult relationships — until they’re recognised and healed.

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🌟 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝘆𝗰𝗹𝗲: 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽𝘀

✅ Awareness – Noticing the patterns and being curious, not ashamed
✅ Supportive relationships – Healthy friendships, partners, and professionals
✅ Therapy – A safe place to grieve, process, and build new ways of relating
✅ Education – Learning about trauma, boundaries, nervous system regulation
✅ Gentle parenting – Shifting from reaction to intention in how we raise our children
✅ Self-compassion – Understanding that survival behaviours were once necessary

You don’t have to be perfect.
Just willing to try something different.

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💬 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮 𝗶𝘀 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗙𝗮𝘂𝗹𝘁 — 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿

At Calming Waves, we help individuals and families:

▪️Identify trauma and its impact

▪️Process difficult emotions in a safe, nonjudgmental space

▪️Rebuild self-worth, connection, and hope

▪️Learn new ways of parenting, partnering, and showing up in life

📲 Visit www.calmingwaves.com.au to take the first step.
You can break the cycle.
𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀. 🌿

💬 𝗡𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀: 𝗔 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁’𝘀 𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲 💙The teenage years are full of emotional highs and lows — and friendship...
28/07/2025

💬 𝗡𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀: 𝗔 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁’𝘀 𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲 💙

The teenage years are full of emotional highs and lows — and friendships often sit at the heart of it all. For teens, friends aren’t just social connections — they’re sources of identity, belonging, and self-worth.

But when friendships go wrong, the impact can be real and painful. 💔➡️💖

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🌪️ 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝗧𝗲𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗙𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀:

Feeling excluded or left out

Navigating peer pressure

Dealing with toxic or one-sided friendships

Struggling to express needs or set boundaries

The heartbreak of friendship breakups

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❌ 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗠𝘆𝘁𝗵𝘀 (𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵):

🗯️ Myth: “It’s just drama — they’ll grow out of it.”
✅ Fact: These challenges are real to your teen and can impact their confidence, focus, and mental health.

💻 Myth: “They have friends online, so they’re fine.”
✅ Fact: Online friendships can be meaningful — but all relationships require emotional tools and boundaries.

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🧠 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗜𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵:

When friendship stress builds, teens may experience:

Heightened anxiety or sadness

Social withdrawal or school avoidance

Shame, loneliness, or self-doubt

Difficulty trusting others

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💡 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗖𝗮𝗻 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽:

👂 Listen without jumping in to fix. Let them talk.
💬 Validate their emotions. “That sounds really tough” builds trust.
🧘 Encourage balance. No friendship should make them feel small.
🌱 Model healthy boundaries in your own relationships.
💛 Get support if social stress is taking a toll on their wellbeing.

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🌿 Friendships are where teens learn who they are. Supporting them now helps shape emotional resilience for life.

𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲 — 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗲𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆. 💛

If friendship struggles are affecting your teen’s wellbeing, we’re here to help.
📲 Visit www.calmingwaves.com.au to explore youth and family counselling options today.

Some great tips here!
27/07/2025

Some great tips here!

Great tips to help your child communicate without being defensive!

thebraincoach ❤️

24/07/2025

📆 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝘆 𝗡𝗼𝘄 𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗕𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗕𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗠𝗶𝗱-𝗬𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 🌱
(𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮 𝗠𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗣𝗹𝗮𝗻)

The second half of the year can bring a wave of stress, exhaustion, or emotional build-up — for parents, children, students, families, and young people alike.

Whether you're feeling the mental load creeping in, noticing your child’s mood slipping, or simply want to finish the year feeling more grounded, now is the perfect time to start therapy.

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✅ 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗖𝗔𝗡 𝗔𝗖𝗖𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗨𝗣 𝗧𝗢 𝟭𝟬 𝗦𝗨𝗕𝗦𝗜𝗗𝗜𝗦𝗘𝗗 𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗔𝗣𝗬 𝗦𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗦 𝗘𝗔𝗖𝗛 𝗬𝗘𝗔𝗥

Through a Mental Health Care Plan (MHCP), arranged by your GP, you can access up to 10 Medicare-partially rebated sessions per calendar year.

Here’s how it works:

1️⃣ Book a GP appointment and ask for a Mental Health Care Plan
2️⃣ Your GP will assess your needs and refer you to a registered mental health professional
3️⃣ Medicare will provide a rebate on up to 10 therapy sessions per year (resetting every January)
4️⃣ You choose a provider who’s the right fit for you or your child

📌 If you start now, you can use your remaining sessions for the year — and be ready to refresh again in January.

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💰 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗙 𝗬𝗢𝗨’𝗥𝗘 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗩𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗠𝗘𝗗𝗜𝗖𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗦𝗔𝗙𝗘𝗧𝗬 𝗡𝗘𝗧?

If you or your family have reached the Medicare Safety Net threshold for the year, your rebates will be significantly higher — meaning:

💸 Out-of-pocket costs are significantly reduced with rebates as high as 80% of the fee
👨‍👩‍👧 Families who’ve had multiple medical appointments can especially benefit
📅 Now is the ideal time to make the most of your remaining benefits before the year resets

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🌊 𝗪𝗛𝗬 𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗔𝗣𝗬 𝗡𝗢𝗪?

Starting now can help you:

🧠 Regain emotional balance before the end-of-year chaos
👪 Support your child or teen through Term 3 & 4 pressures
💬 Build coping tools for family, work or relationship stress
🎯 Set meaningful personal goals before the year ends
💞 Avoid burnout by getting ahead of emotional overwhelm
❤️‍🩹 Healing trauma takes time, starting in the second half of the year is more cost effective

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🌱 𝗪𝗘’𝗥𝗘 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘 𝗧𝗢 𝗛𝗘𝗟𝗣

At www.calmingwaves.com.au, we offer:

Gentle, trauma-informed care for children, young people, families, parents and adults

Flexible sessions, both in-person and online

Help navigating Mental Health Care Plans and rebates

A warm, respectful space to explore what you need most right now

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📲 Visit www.calmingwaves.com.au to get started
Because you don’t have to wait for a breakdown to take care of your mental health.

🔍 𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗧𝗢 𝗙𝗜𝗡𝗗 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝗜𝗚𝗛𝗧 𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗟 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗧𝗛 𝗦𝗨𝗣𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧 🔍(𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁'𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴)Making the decision to reach out f...
21/07/2025

🔍 𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗧𝗢 𝗙𝗜𝗡𝗗 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝗜𝗚𝗛𝗧 𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗟 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗧𝗛 𝗦𝗨𝗣𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧 🔍
(𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁'𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴)

Making the decision to reach out for mental health support — whether for yourself, your teen, or your whole family — is incredibly brave. But how do you know who to trust? Who’s qualified? Who’s the right fit?

Just like any relationship, finding the right therapist or counsellor matters. Here’s what to look for — and what to walk away from 👇

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💡 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗠𝗔𝗞𝗘𝗦 𝗔 𝗚𝗢𝗢𝗗 𝗙𝗜𝗧?

🧠 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗠𝗔𝗧𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗡𝗘𝗘𝗗𝗦
Your needs are unique — so your therapist should have experience in what you or your child are facing. This might include:

Anxiety, panic or stress

Depression or low mood

Teen identity, gender or peer issues

Neurodivergence (e.g., ADHD, autism)

Parenting overwhelm or family tension

Grief, trauma, or transitions

👂 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗙𝗘𝗘𝗟 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗗 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗘𝗗
You should never feel judged, rushed, or dismissed. A good therapist will:

Listen deeply and reflect without shame

Let you set the pace

Make you feel emotionally safe

Be open to feedback and adjustment

🌈 𝗖𝗨𝗟𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗔𝗟𝗟𝗬 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗜𝗗𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗜𝗧𝗬-𝗔𝗙𝗙𝗜𝗥𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗚
This is especially important for:

LGBTQIA+ clients and families

First Nations people and CALD families

Neurodivergent individuals

Young people forming their identity

Your therapist should understand — or be willing to learn — your world, not make assumptions about it.

🔧 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗔𝗟 𝗧𝗢𝗢𝗟𝗦 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟-𝗟𝗜𝗙𝗘 𝗦𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗘𝗚𝗜𝗘𝗦
You’re not just there to talk — you want to grow. Your therapist should offer:

Coping strategies

Communication tools

Emotion regulation techniques

Parenting support

Guided reflection or journaling practices

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🚩 𝗦𝗜𝗚𝗡𝗦 𝗜𝗧 𝗠𝗜𝗚𝗛𝗧 𝗡𝗢𝗧 𝗕𝗘 𝗔 𝗚𝗢𝗢𝗗 𝗙𝗜𝗧

Even highly qualified therapists won’t be right for everyone. It’s okay to walk away if:

❌ You feel invalidated, misunderstood, or dismissed
❌ You don’t feel comfortable opening up — even after a few sessions
❌ Your child becomes more withdrawn or resistant to attending
❌ Sessions feel overly clinical, rushed, or too impersonal
❌ There’s no clear sense of progress, plan, or support

🔁 𝗥𝗘𝗠𝗘𝗠𝗕𝗘𝗥: Therapy is a relationship — not a transaction.
If something feels off, it’s okay to try someone else. You’re not being “difficult” — you’re advocating for your wellbeing.

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🌱 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗖𝗔𝗡 𝗘𝗫𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗧 𝗔𝗧 𝗖𝗔𝗟𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗪𝗔𝗩𝗘𝗦

At www.calmingwaves.com.au, we go beyond “just talking.”

We offer: 💬 A gentle and flexible approach — tailored to each person
👪 Support for children, young people, parents, and families
🌊 A calm, respectful space to explore feelings, thoughts, and goals
🧩 Diverse experience and a deep commitment to connection
🔄 Help to adjust things if it’s not quite working — no pressure or guilt

We believe the right fit can change everything.

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📲 Ready to explore support that actually feels right?
Visit www.calmingwaves.com.au and take the first step toward finding a therapist who truly understands you.

Because your mental health journey deserves the right guide — not just the first one.

Calming Waves in Frankston provides mental health treatment, counselling, and parenting support services for children, youth, and families. We focus on using gentle neuro-affirming strategies that enhance the emotional connection and relationships within each family.

18/07/2025

🌊 𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗙𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗜𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗘𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵… 🌊

It’s normal to turn to those closest to us when life feels overwhelming — a trusted friend, a partner, your mum, your teen, or a sibling.

But sometimes, 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗲’𝗿𝗲 𝗴𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗶𝗴𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗹 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗱. Whether you're a 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗽𝗲, a 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻, or a 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 — knowing when to seek 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 is an important step toward healing.

👥 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗚 𝗣𝗘𝗢𝗣𝗟𝗘
Growing up today is tough. Between school pressure, social expectations, identity questions, and navigating relationships, it’s easy to feel:

𝗢𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗺𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝘅𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲

𝗦𝘁𝘂𝗰𝗸 𝗶𝗻 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 like "I'm not good enough"

𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆

𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘁, 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱, 𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗻𝘂𝗺𝗯

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴’𝘀 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗼𝗸𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝘀𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽. You’re not broken — you’re human, and you deserve support that works.

👨‍👩‍👧 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗦 & 𝗖𝗔𝗥𝗘𝗥𝗦
You want to be there for your child — but maybe you’re:

𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝗼𝗱𝘀, 𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗼𝘂𝗿, 𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵

𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲

𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀, 𝗳𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱, 𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗲𝗱

𝗝𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝗹𝘀𝗲

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲. Parenting isn’t about having all the answers — it’s about knowing when to seek support that helps you AND your child.

🏡 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗙𝗔𝗠𝗜𝗟𝗜𝗘𝗦
Every family faces challenges — but when conflict becomes constant, communication breaks down, or everyone starts drifting apart, 𝗼𝘂𝘁𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆, 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀.

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💬 𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗶𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽:

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝘅𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀, 𝗹𝗼𝘄, 𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗿𝘆

𝗗𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝗮𝘀𝗸𝘀 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴

𝗦𝗹𝗲𝗲𝗽, 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝘁𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱

𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗰𝗸

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁

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✨ At 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘄𝗮𝘃𝗲𝘀.𝗰𝗼𝗺.𝗮𝘂, we work with 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲, 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘀 to support:

✅ Anxiety, depression & emotional overwhelm
✅ Self-esteem & identity issues
✅ Family communication & conflict
✅ Parenting burnout & relationship stress
✅ Life transitions, trauma, and more

Our approach is 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝗲, 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗹𝗼𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 — whether you're just starting to struggle or have been holding on for too long.

🌱 𝗦𝗲𝗲𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵, 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘂𝗿𝗲.

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📲 Visit 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘄𝗮𝘃𝗲𝘀.𝗰𝗼𝗺.𝗮𝘂 today to learn more, explore your options, or reach out for a confidential first chat.
Because 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲, 𝗰𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

🌱 𝗦𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗳𝗶𝗴𝘂𝗿𝗲𝘀 𝗽𝘀𝘆𝗰𝗵𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝘆: 𝗕𝗶𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗶𝗻𝘆 𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗹𝘀 🌱Did you know that small figures can be a powerful therapeuti...
03/07/2025

🌱 𝗦𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗳𝗶𝗴𝘂𝗿𝗲𝘀 𝗽𝘀𝘆𝗰𝗵𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝘆: 𝗕𝗶𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗶𝗻𝘆 𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗹𝘀 🌱

Did you know that small figures can be a powerful therapeutic tool?

In small figures psychotherapy, we use miniature objects and characters to represent people, emotions, memories, relationships and inner conflicts. This approach helps bring the unconscious into view — making the invisible, visible.

💬 It’s not just for kids — many teens and adults also benefit from this creative, therapeutic approach.

🧠 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵:

🔹Trauma, grief and loss

🔹Attachment, relationship and family issues

🔹A range of mental health concerns

🔹Addictions

🔹Identity, self-esteem, and inner conflict

🔹Behavioral challenges in children

🔹Life transitions

🔹Emotional regulation

🔹Autism and developmental concerns

Whether someone is verbal or non-verbal, this method offers a gentle, creative way to:
✨ 𝗦𝗲𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗻𝗲𝘄 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀
✨ 𝗩𝗶𝘀𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘇𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘃𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀
✨ 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘀 — 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀

By externalizing feelings through symbols, this can assist in gaining insight, healing, and emotional relief in a safe and supported way. 💛
Small figures psychotherapy can also be integrated with other therapeutic approaches. Sometimes, the smallest figures help tell the biggest stories. 💛

Feel free to reach out if you’d like to know more!

📞 03 9999 7393
💻 www.calmingwaves.com.au
📩 info@calmingwaves.com.au
*Please note that a waiting list currently applies

🧠 EMDR: A Life-Changing Approach to HealingIn a recent ABC News feature, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reproces...
01/07/2025

🧠 EMDR: A Life-Changing Approach to Healing

In a recent ABC News feature, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy was highlighted as a transformative method for those grappling with trauma or other mental health conditions.

EMDR is a structured psychological therapy that helps individuals process traumatic memories, fears, phobias or distressing thoughts by combining focused attention on distressing events with bilateral stimulation, such as guided eye movements or tapping. This approach aims to reduce the emotional intensity associated with distressing image or memories, facilitating healing and resilience.

If you're curious about how EMDR might support your path to healing, feel free to reach out or read more in the attached article.

💻 www.calmingwaves.com.au
📩 info@calmingwaves.com.au
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*Please note that a waiting list currently applies

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-06-25/emdr-therapy-for-mental-health-treatment/105453498

Celebrities like Miley Cyrus are speaking about the benefits of eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. But what is EMDR and its role in psychological treatment?

📢 𝐄𝐱𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐍𝐞𝐰𝐬! 𝐂𝐚𝐥𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩 𝐄𝐌𝐃𝐑 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲 (𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏) 🌊 We are thrilled to announce that Calming Waves ...
07/04/2025

📢 𝐄𝐱𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐍𝐞𝐰𝐬! 𝐂𝐚𝐥𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩 𝐄𝐌𝐃𝐑 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲 (𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏) 🌊

We are thrilled to announce that Calming Waves Mental Health and Family Support is now offering Group EMDR Therapy (G-TEP)!

Following specialized training in the Group Traumatic Episode Protocol (G-TEP) of EMDR, we can now provide this safe, structured, and effective therapy for:

✅ 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩𝐬
✅ 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬
✅ 𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬
who have experienced single-incident/episode traumas such as accidents, loss, natural disasters, or distressing life events.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏 𝐄𝐌𝐃𝐑?
G-TEP (Group Traumatic Episode Protocol) is a research-backed, evidence-based EMDR approach designed specifically for groups. It helps individuals process trauma without having to verbalize or disclose painful details. Instead, it uses a structured journaling process combined with emotion regulation techniques and psychological resourcing with eye movement techniques. This creates a safe and supportive environment for healing.

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤?
🔹 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩-𝐛𝐲-𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 – A trained therapist leads the group through structured exercises that gradually help reduce distress related to a trauma incident/episode.
🔹 𝐕𝐢𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐓𝐞𝐜𝐡𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬 – Instead of talking about the trauma, participants engage in journaling and visual mapping to help the brain reprocess distressing memories.
🔹 𝐄𝐲𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 & 𝐁𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 – Like individual EMDR, eye movements or tapping techniques help the brain naturally process trauma.
🔹 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 – Since disclosure is not required, privacy and emotional safety are prioritized.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏?

✔️️ 𝐄𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 – Helps reduce PTSD symptoms and emotional distress.
✔️️ 𝐍𝐨 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐓𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 – Ideal for those who find verbalizing painful experiences difficult.
✔️️ 𝐅𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐚 𝐒𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 – Even without sharing details, the group setting provides support, validation, and a shared healing experience.
✔️️ 𝐐𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡 – Designed to help stabilize emotions and provide relief in just a few sessions.
✔️️ 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐁𝐞 𝐔𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 – Helps individuals cope with both recent events and older distressing memories.

𝐅𝐀𝐐𝐬:

❓ 𝐃𝐨 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩?
No. G-TEP is structured in a way that allows for healing without discussing personal trauma details.

❓ 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏 𝐟𝐨𝐫?
Anyone who has experienced a single-event/episode trauma—such as an accident, sudden loss, natural disaster, or other distressing experiences—can benefit from G-TEP.

❓ 𝐈𝐬 𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏 𝐚𝐬 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐄𝐌𝐃𝐑?
Yes. G-TEP follows the same principles as individual EMDR but in a group-adapted format, making it both effective and supportive. Individual EMDR is more personalised, in-depth and targeted. Group EMDR is cost effective and can help more people at once.

❓𝐃𝐨 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐩 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚?
No. Group participants can be working on different incidents or episodes of trauma in the same group. However the process for the trauma processing will be the same for everyone.

❓ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬/𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞, 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐈 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐝𝐨 𝐆-𝐓𝐄𝐏?
Yes. You can still do G-TEP but you will only process one trauma event/episode per group session.

❓ 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐬𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐝 ?
Following one intake session, most people only need 1-2 trauma processing sessions.
While benefits can be felt after just one session, some people may choose to participate in multiple sessions for deeper healing or to process other trauma incidents/episodes.

If you or someone you know has experienced a single-incident/episode trauma and is looking for a safe, non-verbal, and effective healing process, G-TEP may be the perfect fit!

📩 Contact us today to learn more or to book a session.

📞 03 9999 7393
📩 info@calmingwaves.com.au
🖥 www.calmingwaves.com.au

Feeling Burnt Out as a Parent or Carer? You're Not Alone.Parents and carers are full of love, but caring for others and ...
02/04/2025

Feeling Burnt Out as a Parent or Carer? You're Not Alone.

Parents and carers are full of love, but caring for others and raising children can also be exhausting—especially when you can’t take a break. If you’re running on empty, here are some ways to care for yourself, even in the busiest moments:

☕️ Micro-Moments of Rest: A deep breath, a cup of tea, or just closing your eyes for 30 seconds can reset your mind.
🫠 Lower the Bar: Not everything needs to be perfect. Give yourself permission to do just enough.
💻 Lean on Your Community: Even if you can’t step away, venting to a friend, joining an online support group, or simply sharing how you feel can make a huge difference.
🙅 Say "No" More Often: If it’s not essential, let it wait. Your well-being matters, too.
🎶Find Joy in the Small Things: Listen to your favorite song, step outside for fresh air, or savor a moment of quiet.
🤸Move Your Body: Even gentle stretching or a short walk can help ease stress.
🛌 Prioritise Sleep When You Can: Rest is essential. Try power naps or early nights when possible.
⚡️Notice what triggers you and upsets you so you can have strategies in place for when this happens.
🩶 Let go of any guilt experienced when you are able to take a break. Taking this time is essential for your well-being and for you to be the best parent or carer you can be.
🙋 Ask for Help: You don’t have to do this alone. Reach out to friends, family, or support services.

Be kind to yourself. You’re doing your best—and that’s enough.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, you're not alone. There are people who want to help:

📞 Parenting & Mental Health Support (Australia):

Parentline – Call 1300 30 1300 (Support for parents and carers)

Lifeline – Call 13 11 14 (24/7 crisis support)

Beyond Blue – Call 1300 22 4636 or chat online (Mental health support)

PANDA – Call 1300 726 306 (Perinatal anxiety & depression support)

Carer Gateway- Call 1800 422 737 (Find support for yourself and the person you care for)

For ongoing support, Calming Waves Mental Health and Family Support can help:

📞 03 9999 7393

📩 info@calmingwaves.com.au

🖥 www.calmingwaves.com.au

*waiting lists currently apply

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BREATHE IN, BREATHE OUT: THE POWER OF DEEP BREATHING FOR EMOTIONAL BALANCEDid you know that something as simple as deep ...
29/03/2025

BREATHE IN, BREATHE OUT: THE POWER OF DEEP BREATHING FOR EMOTIONAL BALANCE

Did you know that something as simple as deep breathing can have a profound impact on your emotional well-being? Deep, intentional breaths do more than just calm you down in the moment—they actually change your physiology and psychology, helping you regulate emotions more effectively.

✨ PHYSIOLOGICAL BENEFITS:
✅ Activates the parasympathetic nervous system, reducing stress hormones like cortisol
✅ Lowers heart rate and blood pressure, promoting a sense of calm
✅ Improves oxygen flow to the brain, enhancing focus and clarity

🧠 PSYCHOLOGICAL BENEFITS:
✅ Helps manage anxiety, stress, and overwhelm
✅ Increases emotional awareness and control, preventing impulsive reactions
✅ Encourages mindfulness, keeping you present in the moment

Next time you feel overwhelmed, take a moment for slow, deep breaths—in through your nose, hold for a few seconds, and exhale slowly through your mouth. You’ll be amazed at how much power your breath holds!

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