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03/05/2026

You feel like you’re always hustling.
Like you’re running out of time.

And by that very nature…
you’re actually losing time.

You’re not present.
Time flies because you’re trying to keep up with it.

What if there was another way?

You can still move towards what you want.
You can still create the life you’re dreaming of.

But you can actually be in it while it’s happening.

Enjoy it.
Feel it.
Live it.

Not just chase it.

Are you ready to find out how?

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✨ The Softening Project
How to make your life your greatest work of art

Online workshop
$35
Zoom
Sunday 10th May
5pm–7pm

Email thesoftening@outlook.com or message me if you’d like to join me 🌸

27/04/2026

I’m here this week for treatments.
Massage, Hot Stones, Facials.

Spots available Wednesday and Thursday 💖

You know where to find me my darling 🌱✨🌱
Brigitte

26/03/2026

24/03/2026

Unless you are reeeeally lucky and blessed and not your everyday hoooman, you’ll have had this feeling at some point.

This whisper that gets louder and louder.
Until you maybe start journaling (because you have to put it SOMEwhere right?) or your ears start pricking up when you hear phrases like ‘setting boundaries’ or ‘expansion’.

It sits in your chest or your stomach. It can feel like resentment, frustration, jealousy or even just a sense of….”This isn’t what it was meant to feel like”.

Can you relate?

And then we may spend years unpicking, unpacking (all valid work).

But at some point, if you are very lucky, you stumble upon this, knowing…and you can’t ignore the whisper inside that says

“It’s your time”

This feeling that I CAN CHOOSE HOW MY LIFE LOOKS AND FEELS.

And there’s soooo much to be said for how it ‘feels’.

When we seek the feeling, not the ultimate dramatic life change, we reconnect with our bodies and our hearts.
We get more attuned to our intuition.

Sometimes this can feel like more discomfort, but when we lean into what our future self wants to FEEL…and learn ways to create that RIGHT NOW, I can tell you, you never can unFEEL it.

So when I talk about changing the script, choosing your own adventure and living by design - know that it can be accessible, and it doesn’t have to be huge.
It can be subtle.
As simple as finding the feeling.

And that is what we will explore in our April workshops!

22/03/2026

Massage bookings are now full for this week, but we have availability next week.
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You know where I am 💚🌱💚

22/03/2026

Agency over your own life, without losing everything?

Now there’s a novel idea…

It doesn’t have to be an entire script rewrite.
It can be moments.
Choices.
Cheeky little changes.
You are more powerful than you give yourself credit for.
You are an autonomous being!
Change your world one tiny step at a time.
There is a twist in the story,
You just haven’t written it yet.
Choose your OWN adventure!

22/03/2026

Do you have a place you go, or something you do that gets you into BIG energy?
That gets you buzzing with motivation or positive joy filled FULL BODY gratitude?
WHAT IS YOUR FUEL?
Are you alone? With others? Where are you?
What are you doing?

I’d love to hear some of your own versions of manifest magic! ✨✨✨

04/02/2026

Three hours.
No fixing.
No becoming.
Just coming back to yourself.

What if this is a portal into you going home to yourself, before the world told you who you should be.
Before you learnt to take care of everyone.
Before your identity became what you do, not who you are?

If it feels like they have been right there on the other side of a thin door for a while, reach out.

That’s what The Softening Space is here for. You.

29/01/2026

This video is a response to yesterdays little run in.

Here are the basic details for my monthly workshops. Please reach out to me with any questions 👂👂👂
Gentle, grounded monthly workshops for rest, reflection and reconnection.
Come once, or make it part of your monthly rhythm.

SHE SPEAKS
For women (all welcome)

A gentle, nourishing workshop for the woman ready to hear her voice again.

10am–1pm | $75
Feb 14 · Mar 15 · Apr 11 · May 10 · Jun 20
Frankston (location shared with participants)

THE SOFTENING
Open to all

A grounded workshop journey back to peace and self.

10am–1pm | $75
Feb 15 · Mar 14 · Apr 12 · May 9 · Jun 21
Frankston (location shared with participants)
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WORKSHOP PACKAGES AVAILABLE
Buy 3 → pay for 2
Buy 5 → 50% off ($190)
(Use across both workshops)
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Facilitated by Brigitte Jarvis
Brigitte creates calm, grounded spaces held with warmth, humour and care.

26/01/2026

I am opening my doors, my heart and my 20 years of experience in creative storytelling and bodywork, to take you on monthly journeys within.

There are many different ways you can get involved. Come for one, to have a pause a reset and reflect. I can promise you will feel very peaceful and back in touch with yourself after the three hours.

Another option is to commit to a package and let these workshops (you can mix and match) carry you through the first half of 2026.

And another option is to do both workshops on one weekend and treat it as a mini retreat.

Feeling like somethings off but can’t find the puzzle piece?

The Softening Space is here to hold your hand and help you find the key back home.

Email - thesofteningspace@outlook.com or follow the link in bio for more detail on the workshops and what to expect.

25/06/2025

The Softening…

We hear a lot about mindfulness,
But it’s still in the HEAD (the clue is in the name),
What’s the next step?
Full body presence…

This is what I see clients drop into…embodiment,
and that’s the moment they drop out of their head and into their body,
which is screaming “Me, Me, Me!”

The moment they puddle into the earth and feel waves of peace.
It’s an energy shift that’s totally doable.

In the Softening Workshop on (this) Sunday 29th June, I’ll be taking you into that state, and giving you easy peasy hacks to tap into that feeling again and again and again, throughout your day.

If we do it enough, we create new neural pathways which take us to instant joy, bliss and love…which my darlings is the highest of vibrations.
Imagine having that on tap?
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Who’s in?

Ps If you can’t make it, just like and follow, as I’ll be sharing more insights and more opportunities to find the softening space in the future.

💚 Love B 💚