
15/03/2023
How to better manage my stress?
So, just as we planned, here we are in the middle of a stressful situation….. Welcome to life…..
I reckon one of the first things to do here is to acknowledge what is making you stressed. Be kind with yourself. You are only doing your best here. Then, here are a few tools that I think might help you navigate this stressful situation as best as possible, to avoid staying in a chronic stress state, as we know chronic stress is the one that we want to avoid:
- Deep breathing and meditation: easiest way is probably to close your eyes, long inhales-exhales and focus your attention on a happy memory, even for just a few seconds.
- Exercise (particularly outdoors): nothing like physical activity to shake these negative thoughts and get rid of extra tension.
- Connect with community and supportive people: think family and friends, but as those can be quite stressful too at times, it is sometimes great to connect with strangers.
- Eat well and limit alcohol and stimulants as those can disrupt your cortisol cycles.
- Be creative: play music, no, jam away, draw or paint just because you like it, write a poem, …
- Bond with your pet: who is the only one who is always happy to see you after a long day at work????
- Have a good night sleep: just think of how well you’ll feel the next day!
- Take time to yourself: just you, no kids, no partner, no Netflix…. And get that bloody massage that you have been craving for so long!!!
Like everyone, I have had my share of stressful situations, but I am no stress expert. There is no shame in being stressed, having to use some of those techniques to cope, or seeking professional help if we get overwhelmed.