22/10/2025
The phrase “We don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are” is a powerful reminder that how we experience the world is often shaped by our feelings, past experiences, beliefs, and personal struggles.
For mothers, this can mean that certain situations with your child or partner might trigger deep emotions or reactions that have less to do with what’s happening right now, and more to do with unresolved experiences from your past. For example, if you grew up feeling unheard or dismissed, you might be especially sensitive to moments when your child or partner doesn’t seem to listen.
When we understand this, it helps us reflect on how we see ourselves, our relationships, and our children. It invites a deeper self-awareness, allowing us to recognize when old patterns or wounds are shaping our responses. This creates space for compassion—for ourselves and others—and helps us navigate challenges from a place of healing and growth rather than reactivity.
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