02/09/2025
Today we said goodbye to Robert ✝️
So much of my time over the past week and a half has gone into arranging his funeral. I saw it as the biggest test of my life. For the past year, we poured our hearts into supporting Robert—his health, his happiness, and his life. This funeral was the final thing we could do for him, and I wanted it to be truly worthy of his blessing.
We wanted Robert to know how deeply he impacted our lives. That he was loved. That he was accepted. That he mattered.
For my part, I wanted to prove to myself that I could create a send-off that Robert and his family would be proud of. I wanted something special—a standout coffin that captured who he was. And I think we achieved that.
Ben and I did the eulogy. I think I held it together well, but Ben truly did an amazing job—his words were funny, heartfelt, and honest. He beautifully captured the essence of Robert.
I want to take this moment to thank my staff. They have worked incredibly hard and stayed strong through what has been one of the most difficult times we’ve faced. Most support workers never experience the passing of a beloved client. We are primarily a day program—but Robert was living at Kicking Goals, and that brought a deeper connection.
Yes, we grieved. Yes, there were many tears. But we came together to remember Robert. To support one another. To check in, to hold space, and to share memories. I am so proud of each and every one of you.
From the bottom of my heart—thank you, Ben, Rebecca, Kim, Benson, and Luke. ❤️
(Note: I did ask Robert’s family for permission before posting these photos.)
