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Marriage The Kingdom Way, Geelong (2025)

11/03/2025

A successful marriage requires knowledge and understanding about how to live and commit to your partner. Understanding how to navigate the challenges of a committed relationship is a crucial element for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

To protect and sustain a marriage, individuals need to acquire knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment. This knowledge may include understanding effective communication, conflict resolution, compromise, and the ability to adapt to change.

By possessing this knowledge, individuals can better equip themselves to build and maintain a successful marriage.

~ Dr Myles Munroe

We must be intentional

30/11/2024

As a man, protecting your wife from your parents and siblings is essential, but in the context of your marriage, your wife must come first. It is your primary responsibility to shield her from toxic individuals, even if they happen to be your family members.

As a husband, it is your home and your wife. Do not stand by and watch as others create tension within it. If you allow them to break your home, the same people will eventually use your failure against you.

Marriage is a sacred bond, and as a man, you must place your wife at the center of your priorities. When you marry, you commit to creating a life together, and that means protecting that life from any threats, no matter where they come from.

Your role as a man is not just to love your wife but also to ensure her emotional and mental well-being. This includes standing up for her when she is mistreated, even by those closest to you.

Many men struggle to balance loyalty between their family of origin and their wife. However, you must understand that your loyalty now primarily lies with the family you are building with your spouse.

As a husband, protecting your wife does not mean disrespecting your family. It means setting healthy boundaries that ensure mutual respect and harmony. A strong man knows how to communicate these boundaries with firmness and love.

Failing to defend your wife in the face of toxic behaviors from your family sends a message that she cannot rely on you. Over time, this can erode trust, intimacy, and respect in your marriage.

Toxic behaviors, such as constant criticism, interference, or manipulation, should not be tolerated from anyone, regardless of their relation to you. As a man, love for your family does not justify letting them harm your marriage.

It is your responsibility to ensure that your home is a sanctuary of peace for your wife. She should feel safe, valued, and cherished within your relationship, free from unnecessary conflicts or judgments.

Remember that your parents and siblings may not always understand or agree with your decisions, but that does not mean their opinions should dictate your marriage. As the leader of your home, you must stand with your wife as an equal partner.

By protecting your wife from harmful dynamics, you are also setting a powerful example for future generations. Your children, if you have them, will learn what a healthy and respectful marriage looks like.

As a man, a successful marriage requires unity. Stand with your wife, face challenges together, and make it clear to the world that your bond is unbreakable. The strength of your marriage depends on your ability to prioritize and protect it.

- Abhikesh

29/11/2024

Choose to be your spouse’s biggest encourager; not his/her biggest critic. Choose to be the person who wipes away their tears; not the one who causes them. Choose to become a cheerleader for your spouse’s strengths instead of always pointing out his/her weaknesses. Encouragement is a simple-but-powerful tool to bring fuel to your marriage and joy to your spouse.

Proverbs 12:25 KJV
[25] Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: But a good word maketh it glad.

Shalom

Evans Magati

30/10/2024

Marriage is designed to root out selfishness.
You don't go in thinking what's in it for me but what will make us flourish

10/10/2024

On our wedding day 6th August 2005 my dad told us 🤗
" when you get married, At first it will feel like putting on new shoes and in the beginning they may be a bit tight , but it only needs for you to get used to it as it conforms to the pattern and motion of your foot 🦶
So is marriage, you need to learn to adjust to things that you were not used to and remember that you both need to accommodate each other"

01/10/2024

Who you marry is the most important decision of your life because it sets the foundation for your emotional, mental, and spiritual journey. The person you choose to spend your life with shapes your worldview, your daily habits, and the way you respond to the challenges that come your way. Marriage isn't just about companionship; it's about choosing someone whose presence will influence your growth and support your dreams.

Who you marry determines the quality of the love and support you will experience throughout your life. In times of hardship, you need a partner who will stand by your side, hold your hand, and remind you of your strength. Their belief in you can be the difference between giving up and pushing forward.

Who you marry affects the way you experience joy and fulfillment. A shared vision and mutual understanding bring harmony into your home, making even the simplest moments feel extraordinary. The right person will enhance your happiness, not diminish it, and together, you’ll create memories filled with laughter, love, and gratitude.

Who you marry also plays a key role in how you build your family and raise your children. They will shape the environment in which your children grow, influencing their values, behavior, and emotional well-being. Together, you become role models for your kids, showing them what love, respect, and partnership truly look like.

Who you marry influences your personal growth and self-discovery. A supportive partner encourages you to explore your passions, push your limits, and become the best version of yourself. They will challenge you when necessary, but always in a way that uplifts and empowers you to evolve.

Who you marry determines how you navigate life’s uncertainties. With the right person by your side, the unexpected becomes manageable, and the burdens become lighter. They will offer you stability, wisdom, and patience when life tests your resilience, reminding you that you’re never alone in your struggles.

Who you marry directly impacts your peace of mind and emotional health. A loving partner provides a safe space where you can express your vulnerabilities, fears, and hopes without judgment. They nurture your emotional well-being, ensuring that your home is a place of peace and healing.

Who you marry shapes your shared purpose and goals. With aligned values and aspirations, you’ll work together to build a life that reflects both of your dreams. You’ll become partners not only in love but also in the pursuit of a meaningful, fulfilling life that leaves a lasting legacy.

Who you marry influences the type of legacy you leave behind. The values you build together, the family you create, and the impact you have on the world are all deeply intertwined with your partnership. Together, you create something that transcends both of you and carries forward for generations.

Who you marry is ultimately the person who will stand beside you through every season of life. They will be there to celebrate your victories, support you through your losses, and share in the quiet, everyday moments that make up the majority of life. Their presence will shape your journey, making marriage the most significant decision you will ever make.

- Abhikesh

08/09/2024

Marriage is a place of growth and with growth there is weeding out the unpleasant things usually blind spots which each individual has

30/08/2024

Ephesians 5
[21] And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

[22] For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord.

[23] For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church.

[24] As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything.

[25] For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her

[26] to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.

[27] He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault.

[28] In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself.

[29] No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church.

[30] And we are members of his body.

[31] As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.”

[32] This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one.

[33] So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

23/08/2024

God has called us to reflect Christ's love to the world in how we interact with each other in our marriages

The enemy of our soul most often seeks to discredit us through slander. If people have a distorted view of you, sadly won't be able to receive your ministry

Lord help us to see each other after the Spirit

25/07/2024

EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS BLUE PRINT
(No marriage is the same)

We need to embrace our uniqueness, every individual has a different path mapped for them. That's why we all have different skills,desires and needs.

ROMANCE is relative, flowers do nothing for me so it would be unwise for my king to get me flowers as a show of affection.

There are things that he does for me that just make me melt. I took it upon myself to learn what makes him tick and I work towards that .

All men aren't the same otherwise we would just get married to any bloke.
Hollywood shouldn't shape your perspective on marriage neither should you totally rely on "marriage gurus".

Weigh on everything and work out your relationship with the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Refuse to be a cheap copy.

When you submit yourself to the Holy Spirit He will direct your path.Live your life to the fullest, DON'T FAKE IT till YOU MAKE IT but build each other step by step.
When you fake ,you will forget your true-self and it might take a long time before you realise who you are.

COURTESY is important and I do my best to be extremely courteous to my sweetheart, Charity begins at home. I choose not to engage in shouting matches because I know I am able to solve my conflict with him amicably.
We do that with our bosses,strangers ,teachers so it can be done.

It is better to bridle your tongue when you are angry . Once you are cooled down you'll see how small a thing it was.

I thank God for my hunk, he never shouts at me.

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