28/01/2026
You know that voice that says "I don't belong here" or "I'm not actually good at this"?
That's imposter syndrome. And it's not about being incompetent. It's about what you learned to believe about yourself.
Maybe you grew up hearing you weren't smart enough. Or you had to be perfect to be loved. Or you learned that asking for help meant you'd failed. So now, even when you're crushing it, something inside says: "They're going to figure out I'm a fraud."
Here's the thing: imposter syndrome thrives on silence. It gets louder when you're alone with it.
What shifts it:
• Naming it out loud ("I'm having imposter syndrome thoughts right now")
• Remembering evidence (that thing you did well, that person who trusts you)
• Talking to someone who gets it (not to fix you, just to witness)
You're not a fraud. You're someone with old beliefs about yourself that don't match reality anymore.
If those beliefs are getting in the way of your life, at work, in relationships, in how you see yourself, that's worth exploring. Mental Health Counselling Geelong offers trauma-informed support to help you challenge those old stories. Book a session at mentalhealthcg.com.
Dayna @ MHCG