08/01/2025
💫 The Importance of Connection in Community 🌿
This past month has reminded me just how vital connection and community are to our well-being. As humans, the need to connect with others is deeply ingrained in us, however, when we have been hurt before it can feel difficult to reach out for connection.
When we’ve been let down, it’s tempting to shut the door on connection, deciding to go it alone and protect ourselves. Often, this decision is made at a young age, and it follows us into adulthood, making relationships feel challenging. We fear letting people in, scared of being hurt or disappointed again.
But in doing so, we deny ourselves something essential. We miss out on love, connection, and the richness of community. We deny others the chance to know and love us for who we truly are.
✨ How Do We Open Ourselves to Connection Again?�
Start with Self-Acceptance: Embrace all parts of yourself—even the bits you’re not proud of. They’ve likely served you at some point in your life.�
Be Curious, Not Judgmental: Explore who you are—your strengths, challenges, and quirks. Approach this with curiosity rather than criticism.�
Allow Yourself to BE: Practice noticing your breath and what’s present in your body right now. Trust that you are enough just as you are.�
Relax Into Connection: Little by little, allow yourself to feel at ease in the presence of others.
🐴 What Horses Can Teach Us About Connection
�Horses are incredible teachers when it comes to relationships. They give us honest, non-judgmental feedback and invite us to be present and authentic. Through working with them, we learn to come home to ourselves and reconnect with others.
💡 The key is to approach this journey with gentleness and curiosity. Connection—whether with others, with nature, or with ourselves—is a process, and every step forward matters.