24/01/2026
๐ฝ๐๐ฎ๐ค๐ฃ๐, "๐ ๐๐ค" : ๐๐ค๐๐๐ฉ๐๐๐ง ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ค๐ช๐๐ ๐๐ฉ ๐๐ก๐ก
Its that time of the year, when I fondly remanence our wedding day. We took our marriage vows, lit the unity candle and were blessed and wished by close to 400 people before the end of the day (endless guest list !!)
As I look back at the pictures, I never fail to notice how naรฏve, we were about life, but we were confident that if we had a prayer in our hearts we could face any challenge that life would throw at us. Over the last 3 decades, we have been on a roller-coaster ride with many lows and many highs too.๐คพโโ๏ธ๐น๐คธโโ๏ธ๐๏ธโโ๏ธ
So here I am sharing some things that we learnt about saying, "I do".
Love and respect is the foundation of a successful marriage. Love is definitely not a fleeting emotion. Its a conscious choice to honour, cherish and prioritise your spouse above everything else. Respect is the bedrock of not only mutual admiration but also acknowledging the worth and dignity of the other person. ๐ ๐
The lifeblood of a thriving marriage is open and honest communication. Engaging in open, honest dialogue will foster deeper intimacy and understanding. Creating a safe space for vulnerability and authenticity is the essence of a good relationship.โ๏ธ๐
Imperfection is predominant in every human relationship. Recognising mistakes and shortcomings are part of our human experience. Extending compassion and understanding to each other, choosing empathy over judgement and grace over resentment are the core elements of a good marriage.๐๐ชก
Being one anotherโs cheerleaders, offering unwavering support to one another, encouraging and guiding individual and shared aspirations help in amplifying each otherโs strengths and navigate challenges as a united front.๐ฟโ๏ธ
To me, a successful marriage is a sacred journey marked by shared moments of joy, growth and unw