23/04/2026
Most people call this overthinking, but when women describe what’s actually happening in their head it’s usually more than that.
A conversation finishes and hours later their mind is still circling it, wondering if they said something wrong or reading back through what the other person said trying to work out if they missed something.
There’s usually a layer of self-doubt in there too. Worry, second-guessing yourself, wishing your brain would just let the moment go.
Most women can usually name the type of conversation that triggers this for them.
What’s yours?