
23/10/2024
When people have their perception of what it should look like to work in the holistic healing space.....🙄
Before I started my business I was told by people around me, some already in the healing/psychic space, that I need to be different and I needed to change who I was to fit the type of clientele I was to hold space for in this industry.
⚡️I was told I was far too direct..
⚡️I was told I needed to be softer..
⚡️I was told I'm full on..
⚡️I was told I need to be more gentle and sensitive in how I communicate..
⚡️I was told I should change my look to be less intimidating and much more..
Hearing these remarks, led me too second guess myself and how to show up in my business, working with deep trauma/dis-ease etc..I became cautious on all of the above to do my best I wasn't "too much" or "offensive" or "insensitive" to those guided to work with me.
I felt "less than" and "confused" by the thought of doing this, as I would be masking my true essence at its fullest and feeling inauthentic as f*ck... Feeling conflicted on how to show up, how to dress, how to speak, and what to say, I was led to feel who I authenticly was, wouldn't be accepted in this industry.
I was stuck in an "identity crisis" wondering who I would become if i wasn't me? Until I remembered my morals,, values, and integrity. I thought F*CK that! Pretending to be someone I am not is way too hard! I'm showing up as me, all of me! I am everything and nothing, I am funny, silly, sensitive, smart, goofy, witty, confident, direct, compassionate, intuitive, and I hold alot of wisdom through my own personal experiences to help people and I WILL attract authentic clients in return💫
✨️Turns out my unfiltered, high-energy, no fluff approach gets results!
To help those through and along their journey of self-discovery and healing, AUTHENTICITY is a MUST!
I thought WOW! How many facilitators/people are out there are being inauthentic in their business and probably personal life too just to fit the "stereotypical" perception of what a "healer" should be and look like??
Remember to check in with YOUR truth. Stay with integrity when given any external advice, and remember YOU choose, NOT them.
KC🫶