17/10/2025
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I should be over this by now,” or “Why can’t I just handle things better?”—you’re not alone. Many people go to counselling hoping to “fix” themselves or become a “better version” of who they are. But one of the most powerful lessons that often emerges in therapy is that healing doesn’t come from self-criticism or pushing harder....
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I should be over this by now,” or “Why can’t I just handle things better?”—you’re not alone. Many people go to counselling hoping to “fix” themselves or bec…